Wow. That is WILD and frankly Crazy behavior. I do not understand any of that. That's like my family has started checking in on us after my mom got really sick but like... 'where were y'all before?' Now they're trying to be helpful and stuff but like where were they when we were taking care of grandma before she went into the nursing home? I already know my mom doesn't want anything crazy like a viewing or wake or anything. She wants to be cremated and I think maybe a little get together for the family and a few friends but that's it. But like the bad thing is I know when she passes it's not going to be about HER or even ME as her daughter - all anyone in town knows us as is my Aunts' Sister and Niece which is really upsetting.

That's terrible. I just used FB to call her but she went on this rant of how I have her number and I should have called her on her phone. I was like Girl the number I have is from before Grandma died nearly 10 years ago you've changed it 3 times since then.. she called me a liar and told me to leave her alone so I ain't talking to her. UGH! See that was what I was trying to avoid. Cause his kids from his first marriage posted it up not an HOUR after I called her on FB. His First daughter from his first marriage made this MASSIVE Post on FB tagged the whole family including her.

I'm good I had a stockpile of coins so I got everything I think. I'm mostly just tired - almost 2 months being sick with 3 different infections and then my Uncle - That was super sudden and unexpected he'd just gone home that same day or the day before... Then that led to Drama with one of my other cousins (Not any of his kids or anything) because I "didn't tell her the right way" - I called her on Facebook since I do not have her phone number - and like It was "rude". And I told her Sorry but this the only way I have to talk to you and I know his kids from his first marriage will post about it any minute - I thought you'd rather hear it than read it from someone who is petty much a stranger.

No problem Sorry I haven't sent you any flowers I haven't been on much between being sick and a death in the family I'm just drained and sleeping between doing stuff that has to be done.

Ohhhh your way to kind dear.... but I do love it too lol lol