Hey guys! I'm Rei. I just wanted to poke in here and see if there were any other aces here on the site. It's kind of weird to not have any other ace friends, and I wanted to try to remedy that? I don't know!

no, it's just you.

kidding, love you <3

I'm asexual.

Do you find it difficult at all trying to make friendships because of it??

Do you find it difficult at all trying to make friendships because of it??

Not usually. Most of the people that I have told don't seem to bother me about it much. I have known a few people who were rude to me for being asexual though. there was one person a few years ago who just refused to leave me alone about it. She kept following me around telling me that I just hadn't found the right person yet. It really annoys me when people say that.

-bounces around and raises hand- Oh oh oh! I am! I'd love another ace friend! Or a few. c: I'm Maks!

Howdy! I'm Rei! It's nice to meet you! How long have you been on Subeta?

Only about three days so far. xD So not very long. But I really like it thus far! I love games where I can work towards a goal. c: And building up my pets and my sticker/plushie collection are definitely goals. What about you?

Aromantic asexual here. I'm 30+ so when meeting new people they mostly look at me a bit weird when they hear I'm single and not married. And explaining the word asexual...effz I think everyone who is asexual knows what u get to hear all time over and over.

No, I'm a complete and utter figment of your imagination. As most like to think asexuality is something that is either A) made up or B) doesn't exist.

But yes, hi, hello, I'm ace. How do. c:

Howdy! You're quiet an eloquent figment if I do say so myself. I'm doing alright, how about yourself?

Has anyone tried trying to hook you up with someone because they think there will be great 'chemistry' ??

I've been here on and off for a few years now. Welcome to the site! :D

Not really. The most people around me know that I'm an ace and also aromantic. I'm pretty open about it. And I also seem to give a vibe off me if someone tries to do this, I will throw some daggers after them.

But sadly this doesn't make me immune that people flirt with me. I'm absolutly a blindfish when it comes to flirting. I don't realize when someone does what had lead to a lot of drama.

That sounds like it would lead to some... Interesting interactions.

When did you sort of... realize that the whole 'romantic' business just wasn't for you??

I was bored out of my head at work all afternoon so hopefully you fared better than I. XD

Pleasure to make your acquaintance. -v-

I have been single since over 12 years. I had before my fair share of relationships because it's what society normally awaits from you and you didn't want to be the oddball.

I met a man in an online game and crushed heavy on him or you could say I had a squish (wanting a friendship) on him without knowing. So I got myself again in a relationship and we mostly talked over skype. Then the problems started that I was acting cold on him. I'm not the person who is saying I love you or wants to do all this lovey dovey talk. He even told on first day that he loves me what irked me no end. Ignoring this signs it went worse. I was called frigid, heartless and much more. I just couldn't wrap my head around why is this lovey dovey talk so important.

Ended with breaking up and me feeling broken. He also told me at end I should see a therapist for it.

I tried googling and came up with Aven which is a network about asexuality, Reading stories there was like a bulb showing up over my head and knowing not to be broken and that there are other people like me who feel this way. That's how I found about being ace and aromantic.

This counts for a lot people of the age of 30+ who just finding out that they are ace/grey a/demi and bi/aro/litho or panromantic. For luck we have today easy access to the inet and informations. Young people should discover their sexuality and not only believing there exists only one like most society wants them to believe.

Today's my one day off, so I'm trying to use it for relaxing purposes (hence the subeta!)

It's a pleasure to meet you as well!

I agree, I'm about to turn 21 myself and I've had a couple of relationships. I've just been told repeatedly what I'm supposed to want from someone and it hasn't really... jived with what I feel. Which causes a lot of inner-disruption. I wish people didn't treat sexuality like the plague.

I'm about 99% sure I am an aromantic asexual. I'm turning 14 in a month, and have never had any sexual or romantic feelings towards anyone of either gender. I also am unable to classify anyone as "hot" or "handsome". Everyone's just "a person". My mom keeps on saying that I just haven't found the right person yet, which pisses me off to no end. She also says that I shouldn't classify myself as anything yet because "it'll make me want to stick with it". I've been a heck of a lot happier after starting to think of myself as asexual though. It just feels right to me.

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yes hello c:

Ayyee. I'm asexual as well!