Heeeeell ye! I'm here, I'm queer, and proud of it! Specifically, I'm aro-ace and genderqueer. It's so awesome to see so many other ace-spec people on here!

psssst :) cos you did the research for me but anyone else who's interested - I made a forum group for it. Its currently called Ace of Your Life but that's ofc subject to change. Ping tag is because ace was taken. Also subject to change if that's allowed. I just made it quick before flouncing off to bed. And now it is made and I'm off to bed n.n

I've always had a theory that there are way more people on the ace spectrum than you think. It's not something that I hide, nor is it something that I talk about, but it's nice to see a group of ace folks all sharing about themselves.

I've identified as romantic ace for a few years now, but have never really had a relationship. I think for me it's mostly that I'm not actively looking for a partner, so I give off a general "not interested" vibe. When I first discovered asexuality, I was so glad to have a name for what I felt. Now I don't care so much about the name, and have been thinking of taking up "queer" as a more general label.

Anyway, I'm back on Subeta after a fairly long hiatus, so I'm definitely looking to make some friends. Any of you can feel free to PM me whenever. :)

Hi c:

I don't know what else to put, but yeh. I'm here c:

Gender-neutral and grey-a, probably aromantic.

I've identified as bi because people don't know what ace is and I found myself confused a lot. So yep, I'm ace and probably aromantic or rarely demiromantic. Trying to explain that you've dated but you realized that it just wasn't your thing is hard.

hey all-- i'm biro-ace and gender queer, so its nice to see a little community on here of fellow ace people

Awesome to see so many friendly ace faces! I'm a grey-ace myself, with some confusion around the romantic stuff that I'm still trying to work out.

Yes! I am :3.

I'm asexual. It's a little complicated: I think I might be demisexual but my sample size for the hypothesis is zero, so I just identify as asexual. I also might be aromantic but I'm not sure how much of that is me being autistic and having problems making connections with people or not.

24 and still never dated...

Heyo. Ace over here. o/ Also horrendously shy so don't mind me if I sit in the background and flail.

I am, and I would love to make some new friends. :3 I'm demisexual <3

Ayyyyyyyyyy ace :D

I'm demi/grey I have never had any interest in even kissing another person until finding my lover <3

I personally have never understood casual attraction or could ever comprehend wanting to be intimate. My lover is the only one I have had feelings like that for. We have been together for over 3 years and I'm 20 so I think I am at an age where I can fully understand myself.

Even tho I don't like putting a label on myself if I had to I would be in the Ace spectrum.

I'm asexual and genderqueer! :D

Ace with a single exception, which I assume would make me demi!

My partner raised an amusing point when they saw this thread. "Asexuals? On a pet site? No way." :P

'Ello 'ello! I'm not sure if this is how I naturally am, or if I'm scarred or something from childhood, but either way.

We're demiro ace! Though romantic attraction comes so rarely we generally feel aromantic most of the time, until those pesky romantic/obsession/whatever they are feelings come along and complicate things.

I'm so happy to see all of you. I've been on and off the site lately because college is incredibly hectic, but thank you all for sharing your stories with me. It makes me feel really good to be able to share this commonality with you all.

Asexual trans*man here, holla!