We’ve been together 20 years in December. And on the 8th September we celebrated our 18th wedding anniversary

Wholly crap! Congrats!

Thank you. Most people are shocked when find out too

I’ve know and and hels (don’t know if you know her)about that length of time too

The only people I've known for that long and are still in contact with are my family. :P

😂 I don’t really talk to my family other than my father.

And I’m from a large family. My dad is one of 15. And there’s 55 grandkids!!!! Then great grandkids and great great grandkids.

While my mum was one of three! So that side is much smaller.

My anxiety stops me going to family events. So I’m now deemed as the black sheep of the family.

Aww. For real though, that's a HUGE family! Mine was always pretty small, too. Aside from my daughters, I only speak to my 2 brothers. Father has passed.

I accept 0 sP! has been put in your items.

Was actually on my WL from the last of those in the collection. Had totally forgotten about it.

That sounds perfect. Nice and small. I would prefer that.

I wouldn't want a big family either, but I've never experienced one other than my ex husbands and they were all incredibly kind and old school.
I would be happy to know a couple friends for 20yrs, though!

Muhahahah my family is like yours - HUGE. But on both sides. Dad has two full blooded siblings, three half sisters from mom, 5 half sisters and a half brother from dad, and then he and his two full blooded siblings were all adopted out to different families - so he has three adopted brothers and an adopted sister. My mom is one of the younger ones of 9. Grandpa had 3, Grandma had 1, they married and had 5 more together. I have four brothers, and we all have kids except the youngest, he only has sort of stepkids (he and his longtime aren't married and they are her kids). Gosh only knows how many cousins, 2nd cousins, 3rd cousins etc I have, but I have a HUUUUUUUGE list that has most of the ones born up to about 5yrs ago on it. I do not actually KNOW or see most of these people, thankfully I say. Too many!! I do know some of them, and have "met" some others of them online too. I am the one that lives far away from everyone pretty much, so I don't even get to see mom/brothers/dad or anyone very often.

I have gotten 1 wishlist item from the free shop. And still seen nothing in the freyalise. Best item from free shop so far today Everything else has been under 1mil, and a bunch under 10k. :) Is all good tho! Off I go to do my bio assignment. Yaaaay fun. NOT :P

The people I hang out with on a frequent basis are people who we’ve met by going to the pub on a Friday. I always try to shy away from meeting new people. Due to anxiety and my bipolar (I lost loads of friends when I got my diagnosis back in 2016). I can’t trust new people. And I can’t show fakeness. So if I don’t like someone I can’t pretend that I do.

That means I cherish all of my friends both in real life and online whether I’ve met them/you or not.

Still getting crap from the free shop. 😂

I can't believe the diagnosis was that long ago.. or that it's been 18 years! (or a bit longer... which is.. insane!).

Alex and I were literally just talking, we'll be celebrating our 18th wedding anniversary soon, and it'll be half our lives, which is.. ridiculous.

Time sure does go fast doesnt it? Congrats to both of you on the 18yrs married (and the 20 yrs together).

Did my bio assignment. Got a 91.6.....got partial credit on one answer (10 questions, one was "select all options that are true) - guess i missed selecting one, but the other three options (there were 5 to choose from) didn't seem right. Guess one of them was tho. I'll try to figure it out and redo the assignment later to see if I can get 100. If not 91 is good :D Going to make supper, then I might go ahead and do my lab for the first attempt tonight. Its about the same type of stuff, so maybe I'll find the info to get the question right while doing the lab hahah! :P [edit] while going over the question and the answer choices i remembered, I honestly have to say the ONE i don't remember MUST be the other correct one, because I'm positive that TWO I did not choose are false.

[edit] Dinner done, and ate. Just got a from the free shop giggles that brings back memories....i loved that show and Skittles, the dog I have inside right now, is one of that breed ;)

I know what you mean, Luce. I'm not into being anything other than who I am and I can't say it's been particularly easy finding women who I get along with enough to enjoy their company, lol. Biggest part of that has been coworkers over the last 15yrs in the corporate world. One of the fakest you can imagine where even middle aged men enjoy getting into gossip circles.

What show was that from, Kat?
Love the new change!

Wishbone is the name of the show. It was for kids. The dog narrated it all and went on adventures to act out the stories.

All the pirate-y-ness inspired me. I remembered I had a few pirate things to wear.

Totally agree Taarna. Most of t fr uebds are make I just can’t seem to gel with most women.

Back at work today and in the office too for my one day a weekl joy,

You've earned the Token Shop Regular achievement! Whoooo, last one. 500 purchases. That's crazy.

I used to LOVE the Wishbone books! I forgot they made a show based on them, too. That's so cute, Kat!

My damned children... I'm done. I can't wait for the older two to move out. Sick. of. them.

UGH. :P

I'm at 310/500 for that one. Wow you go girl. Like you are going to stop buying from the token shop tho hahahah :P

I had forgot they were books!!! :P

I feel you on the children. I'm so done with Nathan too. Doesn't want to do anything but stay in his room and play video games and chat to his boyfriends, or watch tv/movies. God forbid I try to get him to help me do something around the house, or .... gasp ... chores like dishes, vacuuming, take out the trash, :o I even had a small talk with him yesterday about it - since for ONCE he actually WAS talking to me. He probably won't talk to me today because of that eye roll :P Heaven help him when he is 18 and decides he wants to live in his own place and can't because he won't drive, didn't apply to go to work like he said he wanted to, and if he DOES do those things, well sheeeesh, who is going to clean up for him????? Gaaaah :P He will learn. I know he will. But it is VERY annoying right now.

Ahhh well. Off to work I go (so I can be annoyed by a 4yr old instead of a 16y old?) lol

Yeah.. Nathan and Lily are on the same track.

And all the two of htem do is fight and argue and make each other feel bad like.. get it tofreakingether.

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Well. That's something, at least!

But literally, as I was typing, this exchange happened.

"Eli, come here. Eli" "What" "Come here" "Eli" "WHAT"

GO THERE. OBVIOUSLY GO THERE. THAT IS WHAT. GO. THERE. SHE SAID WHAT. SHE ASKED WHAT. GO. THERE. Jesusssssssssss

LMAO.... ladies I'm sorry to laugh at your woes but I can't even tell you how happy I am that those years are over for me.

Kat - doesn't it seem easier to deal w/ the little ones than the older ones? :P He's very similar to how my oldest was and when it came to chores, I just pretty much gave up. You can only punish and talk to them so many times. At least she did get a job that was literally 2 blocks away so she could walk to it (Subway) for a little while. Think I still have her name tag somewhere. :P <3

I don't recall a wishbone show. Their favorite of all time shows when they were little was Dragontales. Song still gets stuck in my head.

Managed to grab ONE new thing from Freyalise this morning. Pair of the fin type ears I wanted. The delicate color. The RS usually happens on the 6th minute so start refreshing after 5min.

Omg guys...I got a !!!

Ohh I remember dragon tales too !! So cute.

I don't know. They are all annoying? Lol I guess the best thing for the 4yr olds is that they are not mine and I send them home. Nathan does that too...I ask him to come here and he sticks his head out the door and says what? I mean seriously walk over to where I am!!! Especially if you can tell I want to show you something and not just tell you something

And I have about given up on the chore help except for dishes and trash. We alternate the dishes weekly and the trash is his job. One day it will be mine alone, but for now, that is his one daily job.