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Dec 10, 2016 9 years ago
raumlet
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So, I know this seems like it goes against the spirit of the season (and y'all who are big on the gifting, please don't take offense to this!), but frankly, some people just don't like getting gifts for whatever reason. Even if you love gifting people gifts, it can be really uncomfortable for your giftee, and I really think that should be respected :c there's a few ways to gift people on this site that there's no way to block.

You can block being given items from non-friends, but you cannot block:

  • People gifting you from the Gift Center sP option (and this is a huge issue, as you can spam the button and flood people's inventories - even if it's done with good intentions, this can be really annoying)
  • People gifting your tree.

Could we get a way to more completely disable gift-receiving, at least partially? Blocking all gifts from non-friends would be a great start, because even mentioning that you don't like to receive gifts can bring people flooding down on you trying to be 'nice' without realizing that forcing gifts on people who don't want them is super freaking rude, and I know a few people who hate this time of year because of this.

Dec 10, 2016 9 years ago
Ravel
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Selleha

I support this.

Dec 10, 2016 9 years ago
Deadeye
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Brainfreeze

Users should have full control over who they receive gifts from, whichever gifting method is used. Support.


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Dec 10, 2016 9 years ago
far
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Fartsie

I think the tree thing was shut down more than once. As always, I'll never be against such thing. In fact, I'd probably use it someday if I feel like it.

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Dec 10, 2016 9 years ago
Karen
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He-man_769

I like that we can block gifts from non-friends for the most part. I wish we could block gifts entirely, though, friend or not. I have too much on this site already and I typically feel uncomfortable receiving gifts. So, support.

Dec 10, 2016 9 years ago
Eivor
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MacLachlan

As one who can't gift and it seems to be "GIVE OR YOU'RE A BLANKING BLANK" on here, I support this. I'm not in the best financial situation offline.

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Dec 10, 2016 9 years ago
Dice
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This seems fair. It's a little odd that gift blocking is available in one area, but not applied to others. The last thing I want when gifting is to end up overstepping boundaries that aren't apparent.



Dec 10, 2016 9 years ago
Riley
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Emalie

I'm 100% behind implementing a more useful - for lack of a better word - gift block feature. Support.

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Dec 10, 2016 9 years ago
Karen
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He-man_769

If you want to gift it doesn't have to cost you actual real money. It is quite easy to make sP here and your gifts don't have to be extravagant. :)

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
Yer a wizard
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Tempestatis

I've seen profiles where no tree is pictured. Specifically, the Options widget is removed. So it seems some people have managed to avoid it by doing that.

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Ring out, wild bells, to the wild sky, The flying cloud, the frosty light: The year is dying in the night; Ring out, wild bells, and let him die.. Alfred, Lord Tennyson

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
raumlet
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It's possible to gift people by navigating to the url, even if the widget is removed, so that doesn't really solve the problem :c

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
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Tempestatis

Not everyone knows how to do it, though. I always mess that up, so don't even try anymore.

But that said, if someone says they don't want a gift, I am one of those who respects their wishes.

Never too late to win the day [Item=Ray of Hope]

Ring out, wild bells, to the wild sky, The flying cloud, the frosty light: The year is dying in the night; Ring out, wild bells, and let him die.. Alfred, Lord Tennyson

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
Ravel
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Selleha

You only need to change the name for it to work. Nothing else.

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
raumlet
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The point stands, though - it's not a way to block gifting.

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
Yer a wizard
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Tempestatis

I was just offering a suggestion. That's all.

Never too late to win the day [Item=Ray of Hope]

Ring out, wild bells, to the wild sky, The flying cloud, the frosty light: The year is dying in the night; Ring out, wild bells, and let him die.. Alfred, Lord Tennyson

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
raumlet
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I know <3 it's just very easily circumvented with the way the site works.

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
Aurora
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I still remember about 11-12 years ago when I gave someone gifts on this site. Wasn't for Luminaire. I just wanted to help them towards their goals. The items weren't worth very much. They yelled at me for making them feel like a "useless fat cow." Almost a word for word quote. I wouldn't have sent anything if I'd known it would offend them. Felt really bad. Still feel bad. Still petrified to ever speak to that person again (if they're even still around). Still very sorry.

In short, I support this wholeheartedly. I never want to go through a mess like that again (neither the making them feel bad, nor welp. being yelled at).

Please ping me to get my attention. =)

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
Fairy Catcher
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Just wondering, because I don't really know. I'm assuming that if you never get a Luminaire tree then people can't put anything under it even if you don't have the widget on your profile. No tree = no gift, yes? If that is the case, then there's at least that option for people who don't want others putting gifts under their tree. As far as random gifting though, as much as I like randomly and anonymously gifting people...and receiving gifts myself, I do support others' option to not be gifted.

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
Lypsyl
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Crotchety

Fully support. If people don't want gifts, I don't want to push gifts on them.

afraid not, even if you don't make a tree people can still gift you. I remember in previous years not getting around to making a tree right away and having gifts show up at the bottom of the blank options box. And, as previously mentioned, even if you don't have an options box, people can get around that.

Dec 11, 2016 9 years ago
Jesus
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Nameless

I need this pls for the love of god

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