two guys and me.
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okay that title was probably misleading, sorry. if y'all are reading this it makes me happy ^w^
background shit~ (i'm in year eleven, by the way.)
Jacob: Liked him in year 9, he liked me in year nine, i was going out with someone at the time, felt crap. We both like Harry Potter, science-y things and readings. He's nice, funny and pretty cute. Sam: Liked him in year 10, he's cute, nice and funny. We do martial arts together.
Now, there's the problem. I liked Sam literally two weeks ago, and now I'm not sure. I also really like Jacob, but I found out that Sam likes me, and we kinda started flirting. I thought I liked him, and now I can't make up my mind. I feel like I might miss my change with Jacob again. And being a teenage girl, I have the inability to contact one of them, as I don't have their number and I'm too bloody awkward to ask for it. Sam has pretty much asked me out, and I've told him to wait cause I need to think this through. He knows roughly about Jacob because he asked who I liked and I told him about Him and Jacob without naming names. We pretty much beat around the bush and flirted for ages.
This is kinda getting silly cause I do like Sam, but I really like Jacob, and I don't want to lie to anyone, myself or Sam. I feel like I need to tell Sam something soon, and I don't know what to do cause half of me wants to say yes, but the other half is saying but Jacob.
tl;dr - I like Sam, he's asked me out, I've told him I need to think about it. I want to say yes, but I really like Jacob and I can't say yes without resolving those feelings.
</teenage girl rant>
Please Help!
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teffala - she/her/they/them
I think if you aren't feeling as much for Sam as you are for Jacob, then going out with Sam won't be completely honest, it would be like you're settling for him because you can't have Jacob. You know what I mean? My advice here is figure out your feelings for Jacob before you consider dating Sam. You don't want Sam to get hurt because you don't completely reciprocate his feelings.
Hey, thanks for replying! Your advice helps, and to be honest that's why I really can't say yes. I also kinda feel like I'd let Sam down if I say no, but I CAN'T say yes either. Honestly I think my mind's made itself up and is telling me to go with Jacob. But poor Sam. :c
teffala - she/her/they/them
No problem! Yeah, your mind and heart seem to be choosing Jacob. Maybe you can set Sam up with a friend of yours?
Please please please figure things out with Jacob first, okay? I really don't want you feeling like you missed your chance with him again.
Yeah, to be fair, it seems like you've liked the first guy longer. Him too.
, , I think I like him more. Eep! Well, I'll try to let things with Sam go, he deserves the truth. Also Max (another guy friend) said that he talked to Sam and he said that he liked me more as a friend, but then why have we been flirting like little sluts. (hahahahha joking >.>)
Weenie, I finished the Isle's quests again xD Now Imma do the Knights of Nine ones.
teffala - she/her/they/them