You know that girl- the one who tells her boyfriend not to talk to certain other girls.

But I hate that bitch for putting me through hell. :x Is that so wrong that I feel uncomfortable with him talking to her?

I hate that girl...

That girl turned into me. :/

I think I know what you mean.

You're the girlfriend, yes? You don't want you boyfriend talking to the other girl.

Even though they're just friends. You probably don't have anything to worry about. :)

Ehh. She took his phone and made me believe that he was with her and they were doing stuff together. It fit so perfectly because he went to a wedding out of state and she lived there.

They were the worst hours I spent in my life, hyperventilating and all too close to self-harm again.

What did she do to you? Because...it's one thing to say you don't want your boyfriend to talk to someone because you're -jealous- and it's a whole 'nother thing for you to ask him not to because she was horrible to you.

[edit] Sorry. Late post. My internet is crap tonight. Yeah, there's no reason why you should feel bad about asking him not to talk to her any more. After she pulled something like that you should probably wonder WHY he still wants to talk to her.

Ehh. I explained a portion of it in my previous previous post. I'm not jealous of her--quite the opposite. =/ But I am uncomfortable with him continuing to talk to her.

After pulling something like that, I'd kick her ass.

Hrmm you need to have a talk with your BF- Not all agressive like, but just explian what she did to you, and maybe he might see reason.

I hope it all works out.

I know a couple like that, but the other way around. He won't let her have any guy friends. O_o Poor her. Her boyfriend is a 300 pound stinky/sticky guy with massive BO and in need of a shave. He also has severe cankles. :'D! I've tried talking to her, but have received threats. xD Not worth being friends with somebody so easily manipulated by another.

Well, if she pulls something off like that to make you jealous and make you think that your boyfriend was being unfaithful, then I don't really see anything wrong with asking him not to communicate with her. She seems like a manipulator.

Talk to him. I say tell him to get rid of her because of what she did. But if it's an isolated incident, then try to work it out. Tell him how you feel uncomfortable with him talking to her. :/ If I wasn't the girl the boyfriend isn't allowed to talk to((not for those reasons...merely for being his friend :/)), I'd tell you to skip the talking and go straight to the demanding. :p

I talked to him about it, a lot. I just...can't bring myself to truly not let him talk to anyone. So we worked out an kind-of agreement when he tells me whenever she texts/what she says.

...It doesn't make me want to kick her ass any less, though. :x

He's a lucky guy. I wouldn't put up with him still talking to her after something like that. Either he's spineless and doesn't give a shit when someone tries to wreck his relationship, he doesn't care much about it, or...there's something going on between those two.

You shouldn't have to ask him not to speak to her. She tried to RUIN your relationship. He should hate her as much as you do.

Ehh, he just believes anything is forgivable, eventually. Do I want him to hate her? Partially..but that isn't the case.

I guess I'd rather him talk to her and tell me all about it than force him to choose between both of us. I'm pretty sure it'd be me...but there'd be a tension between us that I can't afford. =/

Guess I answered my own question. xD

Mmm, but if they're still friends do you really wanna hear about it?

Don't let her get to you. That is likely her goal, to create tension and exploit what is a pretty clear lack of trust in your relationship. You turn into the jealous, insecure, controlling girlfriend when you allow petty shit like that get to you.

Remember, your relationship is with your boyfriend... Only HIS actions should upset you. The plan you have now, with him telling you when she contacts him, is a good one.. But don't go overboard. You are his girlfriend.. not his wife, not his mother. Learn to trust him or you will never be happy with him.

Ew, what? I'd kill her. The nerve of that girl. But Jessy has a good point.

Were I in your situation, I'd be really upset if he continued to talk to her period. She was obviously flirting with him hardcore, why would he feel the need to keep conversation up with her? fhidsyi. Just thinking about it makes me rage.

It makes me rage, too. I've played so much GTA, lately.

...I kill all the blonde hookers, of course.

That's a tough situation. I would definitely feel uncomfortable, but then my boyfriend would be the one out there kicking her ass for messing with me. It pisses me off when guys don't have the guts to recognize that some chivalry is needed and to stick up for their girlfriends. =/ If he plays the "She's a friend and I'm entitled to have friends." card, that's a bad sign. =/

Seems a bit similar to the problem I had (not once but TWICE) early on in the relationship - he was naive and could not see that she was trying to ruin our relationship. But we made the agreement that you have seemed to make - for him to notify you of when she talks to him. This allows you (with his consent) to intervene and address her if she tries something. I think you have every right to tell him you're not comfortable with him talking to her. For the sake of you two salvaging your relationship, contact with her must be cut off or kept to the bare minimum. What could be casual conversation she tries to start might turn into something else, something more if she manages to manipulate him.

Best of luck to you two.