This isn't a thread about me whining, no worries.

4 years ended because he's ''starting a new chapter in his life'' and I don't know where to go from here.

Any tips on how to keep your mind off something shitty? How to occupy time?

I'm sort of in limbo now, don't really know what to do with myself... I'll spare you all the ZOMG IM LYK CRYIN MY EYEZ OUT but its pretty painful.

(If you're gonna troll or flame, go get your kicks elsewhere :) )

im sorry for your loss. try doing something you like to do?

Clean, tidy and chuck out old stuff you no longer use.

Make this a new chapter in your life too :)

Read a book.. When I do, I space out..

When I am super mega sad I just sleep. And drink alcohol. I'm pretty productive, I know. Either that or I sew, and then give myself a makeover. If I feel good about myself and feel super pretty, then I can get over a lot. I'm vain. :)

Or...You know, you could do something you enjoy doing.

Even like Poodlepuff said, clean and tidy and... Yeah

Make this a new chapter in yr own life. FUCK THAT LOOOSAARRR This chapter of yr life will be better without them anyways :D

Bake a ton of goodies.

baking takes my mind off things. Specially with loud music that makes you bounce and jump and dance all over the place.

Then people will flock to you like pigeons for said baked tasties and you will forget allll about your boy troubles!

OOF what a good idea. Seriously, that is a fantastic idea... I'll probably get started on that now. ;p

Bah, I do the same except its too early to sleep and I'm alone. No need to make myself an alcoholic. XD

Any tips on how to keep your mind off something shitty? How to occupy time?

I always either: a) Dance b) Read a really good actiony book c) Get a friend, and watch the a Spanish channel(or other show with a language I don't understand) and make up things for them to say.

Trust me, Choice C is SO much more fun then it sounds.

Do stuff that makes you focus on the task at hand, whether it's learning to cook something new or cleaning and completely re-organizing a room of the house. Keep yourself so busy that by the end of the day, you're exhausted.

Aw, I'm sorry. That sucks :(

What I do to occupy time is put on loud music (doesn't have to be metal or anything, just loud) and I clean the house. And if I start singing, it really gets my mind off things.

Cleaning seems like a good idea, the loud music will probably do me some good as well.

Thanks everyone. ❤

That seriously sucks. ❤

Longest relationship I had end was 2 1/2 years, and it ended with him cheating twice. I burned things, then took up a sport and royally kicked butt at it (I chose archery, something less violent could work too).

I'm liking the new chapter yourself too though. Whatever you do lots of luck.

edit/ "Burned things" sounded really crazy, I mean I did like a bonfire with my friends and tossed his old shirts and some photos into it.

I fail. The only thing I do to occupy my time is either watch tv or get on the internet.

But I'm sorry, feel better soon! ❤

I caught that, but it made me laugh. I would so do that if my backyard wasn't a fire hazard.

❤

Talking about it makes me feel better, I appreciate the well wishes.

I'm really sorry to hear that. =| hugs

Watch a movie with tons of smoking hot guys in it? Watch a funny movie? Hang out with some good friends? Watch a funny movie with tons of smoking hot guys in it and comment on how hot they are to your girlfriends to make your guyfriends feel awkward?

Sorry, my coping methods need work. (Or so my friends tell me...)

Try to start a new chapter in your life too. Try to find a new activity to do and make some new friends. Theres tons of stuff to do and you just don't know it yet. Maybe try joining a join or going to a baking class or something. Good luck and I'm sure this chapter will be better than your last!

My condolences. :( I second the video game suggestion - go play something that allows you to beat the crap out of some monsters. Kicking pixelated ass always helps me. :)

I always give myself a wicked makeover and just pamper myself. Feeling good kinda starts on the outside for me. :P Shopping is really fun too.

I'm so sorry about your loss though. That really sucks.

Have a girls night out, and just have fun.

Also it never hurts to have ice cream in the freezer :P

Hmm. Go out with friends and just have fun? You're single again. Think of all that freedom and ..stuff.

;D