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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Racism is one of those 'more important' things. We as individual people can't always take large steps to combat it, so we take small steps, like fixing the use of a slur in a handful of items and descriptions on a pet site. To a large number of people, the word 'gypsy' is on par with the n-word. Unfortunately, you liking the word 'gypsy' does not erase its past, or how it is still being used.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Yup, we aren&;t changing it because it&;s a CW. :)
I don't understand this logic

Why aren't CWs being held to the same standards with regard to names as real items? Does staff really think that users will be any less offended by the item if it's a CW and not an official item? Why can't the creator of that CW be asked to come up with a new name?

With there being an exception made for a CW, this change seems rather superficial, and it also makes it seem like the site's need for money is more important than the site's desire to be mature and non-offensive.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Like I never knew the word was offensive to some. To me it never had a negative meaning, but maybe I just live under a rock or something. Either way, if it is offensive to a large sum of people, then I'm glad Subeta changed it.

I do think that CW item name needs to be changed, if you're going to make a site-change then CW or not it needs to fit with the rest of the site otherwise it just seems like most of this was for absolutely nothing.

As for the and I don't feel either of these need to be changed.


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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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..Thank you, I knew that there were,I was being facetious,my point was that there will always be something that offends someone,once started,it will not end..: ) point in case The Washington Redskins,it has now turned into a national story,there are many Indians that are proud of that name,the logo itself was painted by an Indian,to portray a proud warrior,so to appease a few a huge controversy.There are many Indians who are happy to have that name,but I'm sure that there are some who are not,it's a slippery road to go down,We could go on and on about this,I said be careful where it goes because because no end,..I would be interested in your take on the Skins controversy. and about s name for her shop,and for that mater her name,if one would take the time to know her,they would find that she is a sweet young lady,who is kind and judging her by the name of her shop,well,it's foolish as far as I am concerned,And to the other poster who commented me,it's not worth my time to answer you,you offend me,should you be banned from Subeta. ????

I guess I should add how I react to things here,if something offends me,I move on,I don't try to report people,I realize that people have the right to speak,I got that idea from the first amendment in the constitirion

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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago Official
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Quote by JESSYTA
Yup, we aren&;t changing it because it&;s a CW. :)
I don't understand this logic

Why aren't CWs being held to the same standards with regard to names as real items? Does staff really think that users will be any less offended by the item if it's a CW and not an official item? Why can't the creator of that CW be asked to come up with a new name?

With there being an exception made for a CW, this change seems rather superficial, and it also makes it seem like the site's need for money is more important than the site's desire to be mature and non-offensive.

Simply meaning we did not want to automatically change the item name, as we did with official items, without discussing an appropriate change with the item's creator.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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.I hope that you honed your tying skills,I have a feeling you will get 565647343882292902 reports of things that offend people.. : P ps That's what you get for being reasonable..: D

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
Carol
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My tying skills are excellent. I earned my Knots badge in girl scouts. :D

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Lady Aflame

It doesn't bother me one bit and I'm part of the original nations. Then again, I dont worry about being politically correct, native American sounds nice but if you're born here, aren't you native to the land? I also accept that there are others who want any and every store, team, product and anything else out there that has an image or name like the Washington Redskins banned, removed, destroyed. If you look hard enough, you can find a reason to be offended by just about everything. So why look that hard?

That's how I see it anyway.


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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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It really means a lot to me, and to all of us. Thanks very much, I&;m glad I belong to a community that cares about us. All of us.

Actual roma/romani(/whatever they prefer to be referred to as) person that commented on this board, and you think you get to decide if we should use a racial slur just because you like it? You like a racist term. It has been used in racist ways for a very long time. Just because it has other meanings doesn't make it less offensive. Just because fag means a cigarette in British slang doesn't make it not a homophobic slur in American slang.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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You see it like me lil Indian girl....oops I hope that I didn't offend anyone by my pet name for you..: ) and you made my point exactly....there is always something that will offend someone. Once started,it's like a snowball rolling down a hill,and there will always be someone at the bottom of the hill that gets crushed..: (

hahahahahhaha that's good,they will be needed very shortly..: P

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Quote by Carol
Simply meaning we did not want to automatically change the item name, as we did with official items, without discussing an appropriate change with the item&;s creator.
's post said it wasn't being changed because it's a CW:

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Yup, we aren&;t changing it because it&;s a CW
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Your post makes it sound like there ARE plans to change it, after it's discussed with the creator. I am hoping your post is the accurate one...? Did just word his post poorly?

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Aether

While 'gypsy' doesn't really have much of a negative connotation where I live, it's good to see the items and NPCs changed since obviously in some parts of the world it is a racist term. I like the word too (and I don't see anything wrong with liking how any word sounds), but I wouldn't place that above the feelings of people who are offended by it.

While at times people can go overboard with "political correctness", this isn't one of those times. Racism is a legitimate issue and it makes sense for people to want the items and NPCs renamed because they include a racist word.

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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Lorenna

Really happy to see this change, not only for courtesy to the Romani, but it fits the Subeta world better.

P.S. Off topic I know but I have to add.... , buying from your shop makes me giggle like a little girl. I'll actually spend a few extra sp to buy from you, cause "You have purchased ___ from My Vagina" is so amusing.


Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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ok, help this old lady out. what does CW mean?

and since when did Gypsy become a racial slur?

AND if anyone is offended by being called any name other than the one your parents gave you... well, you need to rethink yourself. get upset about something a bit more important...like war, or child hunger, or crime.

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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Thank you for this. I haven't spoken up about the site references either, but I'm glad steps are being taken.

Thank you for that link. Beautiful article.

It's always been one. It's just recently that folks are becoming more aware of it.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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I never knew all that! Thank you for sharing the link :)

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Liron

I think this is a wonderful change. While I may personally think that some one-off items should be change (such as those making light of abuse), racism and slurs are far more important of an issue. Just because one culture thinks something is okay doesn't make it fine with another. "Gypsy" is, in most cases, used as a negative term or brings up negative imagery. Continuing the use is not okay, especially when it's so easy to change. So while I may not be part of the affected group of people, I still thank the site admin for taking this into consideration.

Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Anzo

just gonna put it out there that working to fight racism, prejudice and stereotyping (even the subtle stuff that you might not be aware is actively hurting people) is an extremely valid use of our time, because everyone is deserving of basic human dignity.


Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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Prince

Sorry if this has already been asked, but are pet/usernames containing gypsy or gypsies going to be changed?

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Oct 7, 2014 11 years ago
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It's always been racist, you were just ignorant of it.

And how is fighting racism not important? Are you aware of how many people have been mass murdered because of racism? Because they were romani? How is that not important?

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