Goodmorning people

Hope fysio will give you less pain for now

: Again, thanks for the explanation. I really hope they fysio helps you ^_^

: How are you doing?

Hi :) Mwa been better Still very busy with work, have now also a "tennisellebog" at my right arm. Have some little burn-out klachten. And we started with the "opheffings uitverkoop" from the shop I work. The 16th of February it's the end of that store

: Wow, seems like you have a lot going on. Do you know where you are going to work after the store closes?

I m sorry :( didnt mean that sweety

Thanks sweety ! I hope it will

No problem :)

Yeah it is a bit to much for now. I start the first week off March at the big store in The Wall

Thats fine. :)

Havent seen you in a while! I hope everything will go well with the closing, and that you will find a good place in the new store.

Goodmorning. I still work 4 days a week. Leave at 7:30 in the morning and be back in at 19:15. So not much time for the computer at the moment, only on my days off. And we will see. We close at 16 February, maybe if the sale goes quick we close the 9th. Then I'm free till the first week off March

Thats good, then you have some days to be home and relax. Those are some long days, so naturally you are tired. Hopefully the sale goed well then!

The sale is going crazy. Was 2 days free and when I came in yesterday morning I was in shock how much was gone again. SO we will see. How are you doing?

: Wow, those are some long days. I hope you will be able to get your rest.

It are. Long live the OV fot that. But it will be better when I go to the other store. I can take 1 bus, so no overstappen, defect bovenleiding or wisselstoring :P I do my best to take some rest. Do nothing when I got home, go sleep early. How are you doing?

I guess when people know it is sales they will wait to buy things until the sale start and then buy many things.

Good! Stressed, but good. After 33 years of living with my parents (yes, I am that old, and yes I stayed with my parents for very long) I finally moved out. The house I bought last year is finally ready to live in. :) I slept there for the first time yesterday! I was looking forward too it, but I was also anxious. My anxiety hit the roof, but I survived! And I slept rather well. :)

Yeah it's crazy to see how busy it is in the shop this week. Many people who think it's sad we're leaving, asking why and if we still have a job. Also people who say it's a pitty we leave, but I never saw them before. So they only there because of the sale.

Congratz on your house and living on your own. Great to hear you had a good first sleep there

: Yeah, you can have loads of problems with the OV. Hopefully that one bus works better for you. I am okay-ish.. just recently got the diagnosis of autism, so learning how to make things easier for myself.

: You are not that old ;) I turn 35 this summer. But really, it is okay to do things in your own pace. My older sister only recently moved out at 36. Good to hear you got through it despite the anxiety. That is very hard.

Can imagine that's difficult to learn how o handle now with your diagnose. But now you have some direction to go to. Hopefully you can manage it. I know it's hard. Worked for a adhd forum as moderator for many years. So read much about everybodys journey on that

: Yeah, just having a direction helps a lot. And thanks ^_^

It will work out! When I get nervous I always think that so many people have done the same thing and made it out just fine. So I am sure your new workplace will be good as well. :)

Thanks for the peptalk. Now I do not feel so old. ^_^ Yeah, the anxiety has been there for weeks now, so hopefully it will get a bit better with time. Do you need to take medication for the autism, or are there other methods of handling it?

: No problem ^_^ I hope so for you, because having anxiety is terrible. I wish you food luck! sends positive vibes

I do have medication, but they are for my anxiety. For the autism I go to a group to learn about it and exchange stories and tips.

It is. Normally I can cope pretty well, but sometimes it gets so bad I wake up 5-6 times at night with a clenched jaw. It's so painfull it gives me headaches. This week has been better though! I do not take any medication but have been thinking about going to the doctor for some. I take these natural Valerian pills, but they do not always seem to work very well.

Is the group helpful? I can imagine that just hearing stories about other people and their struggle doesnt make you feel lonely. :)