It does! Trying to remember what his UN was on here. Yes- I’m pretty sure keeekreee was there as well. I still talk to her and have her on my friends’ list. Here was also a girl from the UK who came over from neo at around the same time- cannot remember her name. I’ll probably remember when I’m not trying so hard! She hasn’t been active for a long time on here though.

So I did some digging too, trying to find an obituary for Theresa. There doesn’t seem to be anything out there at all. I have such a hard time coming to grips with the fact it doesn’t look like anyone even bothered to do up an obituary for her. That just breaks my heart into little pieces. I tried checking on my genealogy app but I have the Canadian pkg so my US info is very limited which sucks. I’ll keep searching. I’ll also see if there is anything else that might be accepted- no idea what at this point.

Oh that’s so sad especially since he didn’t want anything to do with Emily for most of her life. He was a crappy dad- what a jerk to call you and go on like that after Theresa passed. Honestly, I don’t understand people like that. TJ didn’t have much support at all. She was always doing things for Ashley- I remember she took care of Ashley’s daughter Alexia a lot to help out and she’d have her hands full. And she ended up homeschooling Emily because she couldn’t get the help for her she needed. She had such a big heart. I always felt so bad and my heart went out to her. It must have been so confusing for Emily… I can’t help but wonder how much she did understand about it all. What ever happened to TJ’s mom, do you know? They lived with her for a long time but her Mom worked and wasn’t around much I don’t think.

She’s the reason I’m here. We were on Neo for ages and she kept telling me I had to come check out this new pet site she found. I finally did and she was so freaking happy. She really did love it here.

I just spent a couple of hours on my genealogy site trying to see if I could hunt down an obit or death certificate. I just don’t think I have enough info. Do you have the actual date? And her birthdate as well? I think it was 1970- but I’m tired and my brain’s not cooperating. I have leftover work brain tonight. I’ll take another go at it tomorrow if you have more info.

Hi Shari. Thank you for letting me know. Sorry- I’m having a bit of a hard time with this. I knew she had had cancer- the last email I had gotten from her was fall of 2022 I think. She had moved to a rehab hospital to work on walking again if I remember correctly. I had a few sporadic comments on here after that but hadn’t connected with her since sometime in late 2023 or early 2024 or so. I was really worried about her so I appreciate you reaching out. Do you know if Emily is with TJ’s mom? My heart is just breaking for her.

Can I ask you something? I noticed her account is eligible for clearing. Do you think we should ask to have it memorialized? Let me know what you think.

Thank you so much for the beautiful gift- she absolutely did love her rainbows! ❤️ I’ve added the image to my dashboard. I’ll always think of her when I see it.

Thank you! :D

Loving your pets' names!