No worries :). Feeding them isn't too much of a priority. If you're low on sp, travel to Riverside to get some free food, or you can go to the main shops section under commerce and go to a food store. As for your avatar, you need to go to the wardrobe to put clothes on.

I'm doing pretty well :). I'm going to finally buy a wedding dress tomorrow! Be prepared to get lots of pictures lol. Then, we can look at options for your maid of honor dress!!! How are you doing?