Whenever we want to send an item, the default user it selects to send to is someone who is inactive. Keep getting anxious that we will, at some point, accidentally send an expensive CW or something to the user.

Is there a way to change it? Tried adding a friend to favourites (could swear that's how it was done previously), but it doesn't change it anymore.

Any help is appreciated!

I'm pretty sure the default is the first person you added as a friend, since that's who mine is. afaik there's no way to change it :( Might be a good qol suggestion to make though!

huh! they pop on every year to keep their name/pets, but we have older friends on our friends list. Truly a subeta conundrum..

Thanks for the response, though! Made a suggestion!