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May 12, 2023 2 years ago
Ondrashek06
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Hello.

As many of you have seen, my recent threads have essentially been very negative, and mostly nitpicking on the negative stuff that Subeta has. I can understand why you don't like that - this just brings negative attitude and toxicity within the community, and is also probably against the Community Guidelines.

I do not intend to be a troll that isn't here to play, rather just complain. If I wanted to have my account restricted, I would just spam or post NSFW. I don't want that. I want to have a nice and enjoyable experience. I like doing my dailies and grinding quests, hoping to get Morty cards so I can purchase some nice things for myself. I like the forums. I like the SB. I like the battle system. There are many enjoyable things about Subeta that I accept.

And an integral part of a website like this is its community. And now, let's get to WHY exactly I've been doing that - not enough community interaction. I want to chat about stuff, have small talk, talk about recent stuff that happened IRL. Problem is, a Shoutbox post gets nowhere. I can post it, and wait 6 hours only to see no response to that, and/or a discussion on a different theme. It's the same with the forums - my posts that are positive get buried. So I start desperately searching for topics that could start a conversation, problem is most of the time my search ends up at just nitpicking on the site. Let's admit it - I'm attention-seeking. But this phase has happened in everyone's lives, you want a community to talk to and get things off your head. And when nobody is interested, you try another topic. And another.

I don't expect you to forgive me for the constant nitpicking at, for example, the owner's inactivity. After all, I've made a lot of these posts even after being told to stop and/or being restricted. But I just want to provide an explanation for it, so you don't think that I'm here just to consistently be toxic. I'm sorry for that. :(

I wanted to also give a shoutout to Perm, since despite being a mod, he posts in the SB and talks with people about subjects, even in times when nobody actually is online in there.

May 12, 2023 2 years ago
Kaje
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Dung

Your topics lately have made the forums feel stressful to me xD to each their own!


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May 12, 2023 2 years ago
Narshe
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Just because people go through a phase, doesn't make it excusable when you talk about issues that you really know nothing about. Negative attention isn't GOOD attention. Pitting the community against you just to interact with you does not leave anyone with good impressions of you in the future. So I guess...thanks for admitting you were indeed trolling. Yes you were trolling, that isn't a discussion. Do better instead of making other users upset for literally no other reason but to get their attention.

May 12, 2023 2 years ago
splendabae
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i mean that's one way to get community interaction up... i can definitely say that it's been interesting...

May 12, 2023 2 years ago
Avel
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NVLB

If you want a community, you have to be willing to engage with it in good faith. If you just keep stirring the pot, you will simply push people away and they won't want to interact with you.

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May 12, 2023 2 years ago
Eivor
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MacLachlan

[edit]Insert grimacing emoji here because I absolutely was not aiming for that but here we are.

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May 12, 2023 2 years ago
Narshe
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I'm not sure why you are taking this so personal when this topic is regarding a user that isn't yourself.

May 12, 2023 2 years ago
Rat
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Ant

Ok but there's plenty of threads talking about good stuff. There's the Battle Chat board if you say you like battling, there's multiple forum groups made for more interaction between users. The forums may be slow, and yeah you'll get engagement by trolling and poking the bear but you will also get engagement by talking about normal or even positive things. Be the change you want to see in the world. Post a thread about a fandom you like on the entertainment board, join or start a thread where users can all work to a specific goal (theres been a few around like sP Sprint or pet spotlight support group). Respond to other people's threads in a positive way. Its that simple.

I understand the frustration on the slowness of the forums but its easy to engage in a positive way rather than a negative one.

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