Ok, so I am totally doofuss in computers (and other stuff, let it go :P ) All of the sudden I get a frame on everything I click, no idea how to explain it better...Refreshed, reloaded, re-logged...(and not only on Subeta), is this ok?

borders appearing around clicked links would usually be defined in a website's own styling (specifically the styling for links in "focus"). i haven't experienced this on subeta but i have seen it on other websites. it's usually used as an accessibility feature (namely for people who navigate by keyboard only, "tabbing" through the page to select links instead of clicking on them).

if you weren't seeing it before and are suddenly seeing it across all (or many) websites, i suspect it's a browser-wide accessibility setting that has either been enabled through a recent update, or accidentally activated by you. i would have a look through your browser settings, specifically the accessbility section if there is one.

Oohh...so much sense now, thanks much :) Not a eeek thing to frat a lot about then, right? No harm done?

no, it's nothing to be worried about. it's purely a visual effect to help make clear which link is selected at any given time. if it's bothering you, you could try to disable it on subeta by adding the following to your customCSS:

a:focus {outline: none!important; border: 0!important}

i can't say for sure that this will work if it's something that's been enabled on the browser level, but it's worth trying. this will only remove it on subeta, though.

Thanks much, much <3