something weird has happened. I have a grey-ed out bar covering all my events and I can't access anything. Then the pages themselves are all at the bottom of vast empty pages o.0 I'm on chrome on my laptop but it wasn't working on safari either.

if you have the friend feed widget, get rid of it

https://subeta.net/preferences.php?act=sidebar

thank you so much that's solved the problem. I was struggling to find anything at all.

you're welcome, glad i could help

had the same problem, so my guess is the two of you might have a friend in common who had a post or status update that broke it ;o

we are indeed friends so i guess that might've been it?