I am gay so I have a hard time finding serious relationships, I usually never swipe right for people so far away from me, but a few days ago something told me to swipe right for this dreamy guy and to get to know him better. Well we've been interacting over the past couple of days and this guy is so passionate/romantic that it just melts my heart.

Mr Dreamy, I've probably learned so much about this guy, in one day than I have ever known about a person before in my life. I want to fully invest my time and entire being in making this relationship work.

So have anyone of you found that right person, that makes your heart flutter? <3

No, not me. Too many Ms Rights, and hardly any Ms Sinisters.

I won't even try.

I wish... I've never dated before in my life and I have no idea what I'm really into. I do kind of like hearing how others have met and hearing their stories about their lives. I'm envious inside but hey if people can find happiness, by all means. :)

Yea it is hard sometimes, being a gay male most of the guys in my city want entirely one thing and nothing more. I've either had too many people completely ghost on me after a date or some other issue. Which it sucks when trying to date, but I never let things like that get me discouraged.....

Which if you can guess by the tone of this post, the said relationship above didn't really work out to well but hey I guess I cannot really look at it too much as a negative and have to look at it as a learning lesson for more relationships to come.

What discourages me is them lowering their standards...only a dead guy is below me.

Yes, I have. It wasn't easy - honestly I never thought they would stick with me through all the ups and downs, but they have. You will know it when it happens.

The last twenty years have demonstrated that I'm an exception. I'm too old to care anymore.

When will it be too long? When is it too late?

Heart flutter? Only once but that was when I was younger and I'm pretty sure I remember the scene differently then what actually happened. After being ghosted on in high school, I gave up on dating and looking. It wasn't until years later that I found out that that had a term attached to it.

Now I'm an inept hopeless romantic. If there is someone out there for me, they will probably have to find a way to pry my nose out of a book or away from the computer screen.

Dead hearts feel nothing.

Dead hearts can be healed.

Broken hearts can be, dead hearts are DEAD. No human can do that.

I met a few people on PoF but not as good luck on dates. I don't like the interface of the site very much. I do appreciate that it's one of the few free dating sites that's actually free to talk to people, but I like OkCupid much better (met my boyfriend on there)