Hello! I'm new on this site. I don't really understand everything on this site. I also get the idea that a great part of the users are female. So I don't think that this is quite the right place for me. And I am a Dutchman. I would like to meet new people who could maybe help me with this game. Oh and my name is Jerry

Welcome! I think there is a wide range of people who use this site, so you should fit right in. I would just suggest reading all the rules and exploring for yourself. There are some helpful guides but it might be easier to just figure things out one step at a time?

Hello! Nice username you got there ;). Welcome to Subeta Jerry! People have different interests here some like battling, others roleplaying and some just kinda loiter around (me). There's a lot of things to do though, depends on what you're interested in.

Hey welcome to Subeta! Feel free to ask us any questions.

Hardly anyone understands everything on this site, especially at the beginning. :) It's a process. Honestly, I find it to be one of those sites that offer a lot of different things to lose yourself in and everyone seems to pick one or two, rather than focusing on all of them. It's a bit.. overwhelming when you're new, but if you hang in their long enough, you'll grasp the parts that speak to you. (Me, I'm just here for the battling and opportunities to write stories for characters. Somehow having a "physical" pet motivates me more, or perhaps that's more hope than actual reality.)

Although, you're correct in your assumption that most of the userbase is female. There are males out there though, you just have to look a little harder. Mostly everyone is friendly though. A user was lovely enough to create the pet newbie that acts as a bit of a tutorial/explanation of the basics. Anything else you have questions about outside that you are welcome to message those here (myself included) who've offered to help as well as ask on the help forums.