So I've been talking to this guy online for a while (on meetme) and he's real but we've been texting and we've talked on the phone twice (we were going to again but he fell asleep). I don't normally talk on the phone to guys but I like this guy and we were supposed to hang out this weekend but I haven't heard from him Wensday night at like 755 (He was hanging with his friends). I texted him thursday about this weekend no answer then I texted him later that night

"Hey [name], I hope everything is going good. Didn't hear from you today & just wanted to say hi."

Now a while back, I was talking to this guy and I started to like him and then he stopped talking to me-no explanation whatsoever- and now I'm worried that it's that all over again.

I think thursday I viewed his profile twice and I'm worried that he thinks I'm some kind of weird stalker but I'm just worried and full of anxiety. My friend and her mother say that he liked me a lot because he wanted to take me hunting-my other friend said it was a test for country boys-.

So advice? Or reassurance? I mean it drives me nuts to know why I haven't heard from him.

Chill! Just take a step back, deep breaths. Stuff happens, it's life. Give him some time before panicking. I've been in long term relationships where some days stuff happens and you get so busy you forget to let them know what's going on. Relax and have a little faith in the universe.

that's Gurl!

Keep me posted if anything changes!

well last night my fries texted him to see what was up and he said that he felt bad about not getting back to me and he was going through some things so I sent him a kik text telling him that I was think about him and he hasn't answered yet so I should wait for him to text me correct?

Maybe just give some space, haha. I mean I don't know how constant you text him, but maybe he just has a busy life? But I would be a little worried too if he hasn't texted back about plans you guys have made. I get bad anxiety about things too, so I know how you feel. xD Just take deep breathes :3

I've been in the same situation as you many times.. From my personal experience, guys who hardly respond back to me eventually cut off contact. To be more specific, they start off showing genuine interest in spending time with me for a few weeks, and then they stop returning answering machine messages or texts or offline messages, even after I wait for two weeks or a month. :c Was I driving away decent guys? Or was I attracting detached guys with relationship issues? The answer I may never know; now I'm in a happy relationship with a guy who always makes the effort to contact me first every single day(the complete opposite of my past experiences with guys).
I'm not trying to make you more worried or make you give up; I'm just telling you from my heart my personal experiences so you can draw what you like from it. I have a happy ending; I hope things work out for you in the end as well ^-^

I guess time will tell. Just relax and if he doesn't reply or continues ignoring you, forget him. Sometimes the internet brings out the mean and nasty in people. Hope it works out.

Personally, from what I'm seeing and my own experience, I'd say that he just needs some space and time. It appears that he may be busy, and just slightly overwhelmed, so keeping up with relationships and everything else that's going on in his life may be a bit much. Just as the others say, remain patient, calm, and keep in mind that if he decides not to talk to you for weeks in a row, he's definitely not the guy for you. I wouldn't think of it as a negative thing, but a positive thing as it can kinda help weed out who's actually going to be there for you in the long run, and who's just putting on a mask so they can get closer to you. Hang in there, and update us if something happens! We're all more than happy to think up ideas to make things better.

I know it's hard not to have anxiety when it comes to guys, but sometimes you have to force yourself to block it out. For me, reading their profiles makes me feel worse. What I would do is give him space. Let him make more effort. It seems like you have put in a good amount of effort. If he really wants you, he will work for you. If not, he is not worth it. Just give him some space and time!