So... imagine someone you know IRL found you here... Someone that kind of annoys the living hell out of you. And blocking them would only stir shit you don't want to touch...

How do you avoid them? tell me PLEASE. -_-

Deny it's you?

Just ignore their comments, delete any mail from them that you get, don't talk to them on the forums, don't reply to them on the forums, etc.

I would fucking flip shit if someone I know IRL found me here. That would ruin the whole thing for me :(

Ignoring her really isn't an option. -_-

Well, is she like a bitchy ex or something, or is she just generally annoying and obnoxious? :/

Yush. If you block them they'll be like.. WHUT WHY DID YA BLOCK ME?? Just pretend they got the wrong one, unless that isn't an option either? I mean, you could have accidentally told them that it's you, then I have to think a little harder :P

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Well another thing I thought about that really isn't a reasonable option... not even if you are really desperate :P

1. buy an ISS
2. change your name ( I'll take your current one :P to make sure no one gets it coughcough )

Or you could always fall back on the parallel-universe-evil-twin-with-a-cheesy-goatee defence.

...Kind of an ex best friend who's replaced me with all her college buddies who are 1337 myspace whores and cooler than me. Like I said, do not want to stir the shit. (good thing she doesn't come on the forums...)

And... No way! I've already gone through 3 ISSes. -_-

HAHAHHAHA xD DO THIS DO IT DO IT

What kind of shit would stir if you blocked her? Honestly, I'd rather block her here and have to deal with whatever shitfit she throws in RL than have my Subeta experience ruined.

Subeta >>>>>>> RL

8D I know it wasn't a real option,, but it did sound cool :P

Perhaps you could get the comment box of your profile? That way it's more difficult for her to comment you. If she doesn't visit the forums, she won't comment you through the link under your HA. That only leaves the mailbox - which you just... could decide to respond very slowly? She'll feel discouraged that way and won't send you mails very often. In a few weeks you could add the comment box again? That's pretty drastic too though.

Geez man D: Waah for personal troubles. I'd offer to get you an ISS my OWN damn self if a) you wanted one and b) I could frickin' afford it D;

Maybe do what says; take off the comment box. shrug

It's the mail button that has to go. But I doubt that would make a difference.

What kind of shit... Hrm... I don't want to go there. Best not think of it.

Well removing that button might actually work,, just a little. And when you respond very slowly then, she should just crawl back to wherever she came from? It's not like you are ignoring her then, you just don't respond fast - this could actually work :P I got rid of some people doing that.

put your status thing that tells someone if youre online or not to hidden, then they will never know when youre online.

you can say you quit :)

I guess if it was me I'd kind of just ignore her. From what you said above it doesn't seem like the two of you actually talk that much anymore so it wouldn't really make things suffer more if you just ignored her on Subeta.

Another alternative would be just to tell her that you don't really want your online and real life to mix. I've meet online people like that before, in fact I have a guy I play an MMORPG with that only goes by his game name because he doesn't want the two to mingle.

I just hope for your sake that she doesn't find the forums anytime soon because it might be awfully awkward explaining this thread to her. lol

Don't reply, and say your internet connection's been acting up lately, so sometimes you don't get messages and things like that? D: Good luck..!

just don't read or respond to her email. Soon she will get sick of talking to herself and move on.

Personally I find its easier not to play games. If you don't want to talk to her then just tell her so. If she is a friend of yours then she wouldn't be bothering you and if she's not a friend of yours then who cares what she thinks about you.

Wouldn't it actually be grand if she did discover the forums, and finds this thread? She can have a nice good, long read and the two of you won't have to say a single word to each other to know that you don't want to communicate with her. :D

And am I the only one who has no problems whatsoever with telling people off in the physical world when I want nothing to do with them? Really it makes things SO much easier than this beating around the bush who-hah.

And things to make it more difficult to contact you on Subeta: change Last Seen status to 'hidden', remove 'add friend' and 'mail' buttons from your profile, as well as a comment box. And if you don't want her to be able to mail you, if you get a lot of SMails regularly, let your inbox fill up. Not sure if it still works anymore or not, but if you exceed your inbox's maximum capacity for messages, people trying to send you an SMail will get an error message, and I don't believe the message will go through. Blocking would still be infinitely easier though. That's what the system is there for.