Basically what everyone else is telling you. I went through a phase like that, only it was everyone around me who thought I could handle it. I hide it well and then stress set a chain reaction off in a bad way. To be honest you really won't be able to break her from it...all you can do is be there for her, and try your damnedest not to make her angry because she will push you away and wait for..well...her to crack (not that I hope she does, I hope shes one of the eople who doesn't need to snap to figure it out :c ). Like limePOP said, plan weekend to chillax with her and do fun shit c: edit: Ack that...really didn't help at all. I just reread it and it made no sense sorry

I'm glad you're being a good friend, and going the distance to really help her out. I know it takes courage to stand up to your friends, and I totally applaud you for it.
You just have to tell her how it is, don't dance around the subject.

All you can do is be there for her.

Some of the harder lessons in life have to be learned by some people.

It seems like this is one of those cases.