I need to vent. My mom's brother almost killed our cousin's husband. He's old...and has a bad heart. Like really bad. Most of his heart's dead and he's got a defib. And my uncle saw him outside and went over there yelling at him and accusing him of stuff and Harold (mom's cousin's husband) told him if he'd come down out of that truck he'd kick his ass right there. Well, my uncle laughed at him (think he knew Harold was having trouble with his heart), locked the door like a pussy, and drove off.

Harold's defibrillator went off four times and by the time he got home he was so weak and hurt that he couldn't even get out of his car. He had to blow the horn for his wife to come get him. He had to go to the hospital and he almost died.

I hate my uncle. I hate him. I don't know why in the hell he can't leave us all alone. He's made it plain he doesn't want anything to do with us.

And the stuff he was accusing Harold of. Omg. He was saying that Harold had turned my mom against him and all this bunch of bullshit. Harold didn't have anything to do with it. It was all my uncle, his wife, and their kids. And I don't know what the fuck brought this on. Because my uncle (and his whole little family) hasn't tried to talk to us in years. Not when my mom was diagnosed with leukemia, when my dad had heart surgery, or when my dad lost his leg. That's just the stuff that happened this year too. They've not been around in forever and made it plain they hate us. So. I don't understand. I don't get why he has to harass the people in the family who still love us. My other uncle, his wife, our cousin Gracie and her hubby Harold, their kids, and their mom. I don't understand it. Nobody's done anything to deserve any of this. He doesn't even have any contact with them unless he goes to them. They don't have any use for him after the things he and his wife did to us. They stay away from him.

And what if Harold had died? And there's nothing I can do. I wanna call my uncle, but what good would it do? I don't even know what I'd say to him.

[edit] Edited to make sense. lol.

Oh bb, I'm sorry this happened to your family. ]: You're uncle sounds like a real jerk. I don't know what grounds Harold would have, but could he possible get a protection order against your uncle? It would keep him away, for sure.

I don't really know who you're thinking about calling though -- Harold or your uncle?

I was gonna call my uncle. I'm sick of him doing all this shit. I still might. I don't know. I've calmed down a little now. I just can't believe he did that to Harold. Got him all upset knowing about his heart.

Yeah, they're gonna get a restraining order against him and his son. He said he was gonna send his son down there and all this and that. So, they're gonna go ahead and have a restraining order put against him too. 'Cause his son's a pure asshole too.

Honestly, I wouldn't call him. People like that just seem to feed off the negative energy sent their way -- he'd probably just try to provoke you. Best just ignore him. That's bound to bother him more.

He has a kid!? Assholes like that really, really shouldn't be allowed to reproduce. Ever. :|

I know he would. It's what he does. I've felt like for years it won't do any good to try to tell him anything. But. At the same time I wanna just let him have it and LET him laugh at me. He's nothing but a bully.

Two kids. lol.