So there's this guy, and I requested to be his friend on myspace, he accepted, yadayadyada..my point is, though, that on...Friday? And he read it, that's what the sent message thingy said, but he never replied.

So now it's three days later, and I wanna try again. But my question is, how do I approach him in a message after he ignored my last message?

guys don't act the same as girls do on situations like messaging, calling, etc. they may with other guys -- but i don't think i've seen many guys react that way to girls. (the cliche 2-day rule comes to mind)

you have to calm down and give him space. otherwise, its going to blow up in your face, for sure. i'd wait at least a week before i'd contact him again.

Shatzy's right, guys think differently about responding than girls do.

They do it either because they do not want to seem desperate, perhaps they could have something on their plate, or they do not want to push things, it could be a variety of things.

Give him some more time and than reply.

I'm a guy, so, I might be able to help. Anyways. We don't check our mailboxes every day. Just give him some time.

yeah, I guess they do just reply different :

But last night he posted a bulletin with her phone number and said:

All my new friends that havent texted me before. You need to text me now(:

Soo...coincidence? Or could he have just been talking to someone else? Cus I really don't think I qualify as "friend" if he never replied.

text him

Hey why not text him? It's worth a try! Maybe he did read the message, and he's hinting at you to text him! :)

Yeah, stick to texting him... I'm sure he'll reply to that. If not, try messaging him again sometime, like when something exciting goes on or when you can think of a question he could answer. Guys are sometimes weird like that... if he doesn't seem to take interest in you, don't worry about it. He's not worth the energy if he always ignores you.

Just text him. If he doesn't respond to that, then you'll know your answer. And if he does respond...yay? xD Though...you do KNOW this guy in real-life, right? Or have means of knowing him? Because an online guy you barely know isn't really worth getting all worked up over.