If you are reading this, feel free to post similar situations and be prepared for sadness and complaining from my side, thanks.

Okay, i am falling hard for this girl. She's bi (like me, thank fing god) she is so sweet and funny she is just...gah! worth more words than my vocabulary holds.

We were close friends. I told her. she (politely) rejected me and decided we shant be friends. After a few months (now) we are friends, but not as close, unfortunately. All of my gestures seem to go unnoticed. And the thing is, she's two grades ahead of me and graduating next month, so i won't see her ever again ever.

And the worst part is, shes taking my heart with her. Ive tried everything. Any tips to heal a permanentally broken heart?

Oh, and it made it so much worse because i have no self esteem and am really sensitive.

Sadly one of the hard parts about growing up is learning to deal with loss. There will always be wonderful people coming into and going out of your life. The important part is to not be so caught up in the people leaving that you can't notice the people coming into view.

For now, take some time to accept she made her choice and don't let it spoil the precious time you have remaining with her. Don't obsess, just try to continue being her friend.

And eventually, there will be somebody that does return your feelings, and it's going to be wonderful, the other losses will make that gain seem so much more special.

hows that saying go.... "better to have lost a love then not have loved at all" or something like that... :

i feel your pain though...

about four years ago i fell SUPER hard for this guy and he made me believe he felt the same, but he had dated one of my best friends previously so i told him i couldnt date him just yet, it would take some time, so he got impatient and went back with her cause she'd put out that easily and what not. so that alone crushed my little heart, then two years after that me and that girl became enemys basically because i just couldnt like her no matter how hard i tried... plus i resented her a bit. so she was STILL with the guy i had loved and it got pretty bad between me and her [like almost being suspended from school bad] and he stood up for her and said the most mean and harsh things to me... that probablly hurt me even more then that fact he couldnt wait for me :

Wow... that sucks. =( Having your heart taken away by someone like that... it really is a bummer. But, maybe things will work out later? Who knows... she could come back into your life and things will be better the second time around... or someone even better could come around and steal your heart from her? =D Positive thinking. It helps. I had a huge crush on this girl once... she was straight though, but I had to tell her my feelings just to get them off of my chest. She told me I was a great friend and if she was into girls she'd date me... LOL. But, nothing really changed between us... until more drama happened and we stopped talking. XDD Yeah... it could be worse.

But, don't get discouraged! It isn't the end of the world. Keep your chin up, k? =D

You just need time to heal. I know it hurts. I'm not trying to downplay what you're going through. But you'll be alright. It's just that it takes time to get over something like that. Spend time with your other friends and try to go out with them at least once a week to stave off the lonelies.

I feel for you, I really do. That's such a horrible thing to have to go through, but you'll eventually pull through, because you never know who may come around again, or if you'll see her again, you may, you never know. Maybe she'll bring your heart back to you.. :] But until then, just keep looking for someone, they'll come around and perhaps find you.
I know what it's like. I started to really like this guy who was in the school play with me, and he would always be staring at me and we'd laugh and talk before our cues on stage; well, he's a year behind me (grade 7) and I'm be graduating this year. Not to mention; the play is over, and he's in the gifted classes. So chances of seeing him are slim to none. Although he occasionally comes out the door I do after school... but we never talk.
edit for failure at noticing my grad is not next year, but next month