Sorry for the random title that makes no sense. It doesn't mean anything.

BUT, the issue is as follows takes deep breath

Alright so he is going out with her. He loves her. He also loves me. I love him. She is my best friend.

If that hasn't confused you, what do you suggest that I do.

'Cause I dunno what to do anymore! D: And I'm usually good at resolving stuff like this.

my initial response goes something like this --

which one is he going out with again?

My best friend.

so where's the confusion again?

Fo sho.

If he's dating her it seems like he's made his choice

Yeah. This can only end in disaster. Especially when she finds out.

Just ask yourself who you care about most, some guy or your best friend?

If the answers your friend, talk to the guy and explain how you don't want to hurt your friend, and you can't keep deceiving her like this. Then distance yourself as much as possible from the guy, at least until you're over him, because he's dating your friend and you can't avoid him forever... I'd suggest moving your feelings onto someone else and forgetting about ever having feelings for him :)

If the answer was the guy, then I guarantee you this wont end well. :|

Edit - whatever you do, don't let a guy come between you. ❤

He's dating her. He doesn't love you if he loves her, period- not being mean but that's the way it works.

Yes, you can love two people, blah blah.... But a person who really loves both people has to make a choice, and he made his. Any love that might be there for you means nothing after that choice. If he thinks he made the wrong choice, that's his deal.

She's your best friend. Relationships with real friends are forever; boys are passing. Taking him from her, doing anything with him is not what you want to do, no matter how you might feel now. How will you feel tomorrow? In a few months? In three years? This kind of a choice affects you far more than you realize, on and on into your future. Your friends will be there, but this boy more than likely will not. Which is the more valuable to you, real relationships with people or a fleeting attraction?

This is funny, because I went though the exact same thing. I explained how I felt to my friend, and she... well I don't think she even cared D: But eventually they broke up, and he was all mine >D ...I don't think I helped, did I? :/

I looked on your profile and saw that you are only 13. I'm sorry, but I don't this should be a big deal for you. This guy will probably not be the one you will marry, and there is a much higher chance that this girl will be your friend for a very long time, if you keep it up. So forget about the guy, focus on your friends.l