Okay, so awhile back I was talking about how I liked one of my friends, and stuff.... Well, this drama hasn't ended. I've been trying to be quiet about it, but he won't stop bringing it up, and still won't talk to me in private, to get it settled. He's being weird.... :(:(:(:(

Well, today, his brother sent me a message on Gaia, and told me that I don't need to worry, that the guy I like talks about me frequently, and it's nothing bad.... But his brother said that I don't need to tell him that he told me that, so I can't confront him....

I won't it all to end, please??? I'm almost in tears, and my mind is a wreck, and I've got finals tomorrow! :( I don't know what to do, really....

Uhm. So he knows that you like him?

You should send him a message and tell him how this makes you feel. It doesn't really help when he keeps acting like he does?

I think I'm going to call him. I don't mean to be whining by the way, but I'm really stressed from this....

meh... there comes a time when you have to relieve yourself of issues FIRST... this isn't being insensitive, it's being intelligent. just flat out ask the guy about it!! enough with the games and drama?

hits head on desk

You do realize you are allowing the drama to go on a bit by not being direct.

Forget about what he is trying to do for a second and just get what you want to say out.

Otherwise ten to one, the drama will continue.

Hm. I called him. Best I could do. My friend talked to him though, because after deciding what I was going to say, I froze....

He told my friend that after a party that we're having on June 14th, he plans to ask me the movies. I doubt he will though. He never does what he says he's going to do. I'm going to try not to get my hopes up.

You really should be direct with him. Just tell him you like him and ask him out on a date yourself. If he rejects you, then that will allow you to move on a little. If he can't be honest and communicate with you about his feelings, then he's probably no good for you. Communication is a very important part of relationships.

You need to talk with him directly about these things, not through another person. If you want to go to the movies ask him to go. If you freeze on the phone, how are you going to handle being with him in person?

Oh, damn, haven't thought of that one, Arch. I get over my shyness eventually, or I did with my last boyfriend. I guess, maybe we're not meant to be? O_o

Well like everybody else said; just be totally direct with him. If he doesn't ask you out to the movies that day, make a date with him then. Just practice and try to be yourself, because if you're akward with him in person that could..uhm.."disrupt the balance" and make him feel akward. Even if you guys aren't meant to be it's always a good experience in the end, no matter how bad the relationship because you would've learned something.