Im in a rut. A relationship rut and only you, the ppl of subeta can help.

So my bf tried to go from just kiss to makeout last week. But I got scared and pulled away. And then i was embarrased but he just held me and said it was ok and i should stop feeling bad because he knew i wasnt ready.

Well i have mentally prepared myself.

So how do i do it? As in how to i go from plain kiss to make out.

btw we can only see each other in school because he never comes over to my house or vice versa and im kinda embarrassed to ask him cause each time he says he is busy.

Yes last time was a disaster and I want to make out with him but i get embarrased when i go to do it or he pulls away form our kiss to fast.

Grr its frustrating subeta, it really is

You shouldn't try and force yourself, when you actually want to do it it'll feel natural

Kissing is for marriage

Like CinnamonRoll said, It comes naturally.

LOL. I think it's a little late for the OP to put on her lip chastity ring.

Just keep...kissing and trying to bite each other's face off? With ought teeth, of course.

-snort- It looks like that ship has sailed.

Boooo.

Just let it come to you naturally. You can't force yourself into it :)

Anyways, I think that you should make out with him when the time is right and it feels natural. Both of you should be comfortable with it, and just relax. :)

Lol

k i wont lol

^ Um I would agree with you but obviously that ship sailed a long time ago. However I agree with wate to have sex. Which I am.

I dunno im really weird about it. I wont kiss him in front of my friends because im embarrassed about what they are going to say.

Ah well, ce la vie! Keep the advice coming! Thanks!

Just wait til you're comfortable with it. There's no need to rush :) Do it when you feel like it.

As stated before, it'll come naturally, once you guys become more comfortable with each other.

If you're that uncomfortable with it, you're not ready. No need to force things.

o______o

... now that i got that out of my system:

it'll happen naturally. if you're confused as to HOW to go from a simple kiss to eating each other, just sort of, kind of, stick your tongue out whilst kissing and lick his lips to tell him what's coming?

just get a firm handful of his hair and slip the tongue in :)