About to Leave Subeta for good.
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I don't think its really fair that I am the only one getting blocked from the shoutbox. Other people were being mean to me and they didn't get blocked. It's not fair. I'm about to switch to a different site where people are more nicer to me because on here, I feel like I am not wanted.
If people are mean to you, why didn't you block them?
I'm sorry to hear that :x But I have to say that nobody is blocked without a reason. I know it's hard sometimes not to get angry, but it's better to stay calmed down then start arguing with people. Generally the users of Subeta are very nice, unlike to some other sites I know Dx
Yeah, like Tche suggested, if someone is mean to you just block them. It saves a lot of trouble.
Well, I don't like blocking people. :( I don't like feeling like a bad person and it was fun in the SB but it seems like I'm not wanted at this site.
Honestly, you should check some of those other sites before you say that. I've been on quite a few and Subeta is by far the best community I've found. If you think the people are mean here you're going to have a really rough time elsewhere.
I don't use the Shoutbox so I don't know the crowd that hangs there. But like people before me said, if someone is mean to you or something just block them. It makes everything here more enjoyable.
I'm sorry that that's the way you feel. However, if you were blocked from the Shoutbox then you must have been doing something wrong. Read the rules, socialise with other members in a way that is nice and not annoying or intimidating (not saying that you are doing this but other members sometimes don't fit in because they're not behaving in a way that is socially acceptable).
Quite honestly, you can't get a site that is nicer than Subeta. Subeta is a lovely community to be involved with. You can make changes and turn this around, rather than leaving.
People don't block for no reason. Most other sites are far more cruel than subeta, so if you're having a hard time on here... honestly, I'd just try to stop doing whatever is upsetting people.
If people are mean to you, you shouldn't have to deal with their words anyways. You will feel better without their words, right?
Sorry you feel 'unwanted' but maybe your being a bit over reactive? I mean, leaving a site, JUST because a few people were mean to you. Hun, your going to have a rough time anywhere you go if you act like this every time something doesn't go your way.
I'm sorry if I'm sounding rude, but still. Subeta is probably the nicest place you'll find around. Sure, we do get a few bad eggs, but if you can get past that, it's a wonderful community.
But, If you still want to leave, then just go. I mean really, why make a big deal about it? If you ask me, I think this is just a way to seek attention.
Again, sorry that I'm a bit harsh.
shoutbox sucks anyways. :(
Sorry but that's bullshit :x Nobody here is 'not wanted', except for scammers, spammers and cheaters. Wicker is totally right, you are overreacting. You'll never find a 'good' place when you act like a child and sadly this is what you are doing... the people on Subeta are different then people on Neopets for example, because they are older.
Just try to be more relaxed, block someone if that user is mean to you and it's over.
Hate to break it to you, but "I AM LEAVING FOREVER BECAUSE YOU'RE MEAN TO ME!" boards aren't going to help you or earn you any respect. Honestly, Subeta is one of the friendliest sites I've ever been on, you're going to be hard-pressed to find any place that doesn't have the odd person who will be "mean" to you.
Blocking people you feel are mean towards you is the best answer. Just dramatically throwing up your hands and stomping out solves nothing, you're the one who misses out. I think you need to take a deep breath, settle down, and listen to some of the advice these other folks are giving you.
If I were you, I'd stick to the forums and comments a bit more until maybe things die down so people don't 'hate' you as much? If you just let them cool off then maybe you'll be ok when you go back? I know for a fact that even though the forums and get cruel at times, the good parts outweigh the bad by a ton. Just pick the people you talk to on the shoutbox the most and give them a comment or something that away you can still talk to them. c: It sucks that you're band, but it'll be ok in the end. Besides, subeta is truely the nicest economy that I've ever seen. Just do what I do, put on a fake smile if someone's bothering you and kill them with kindness. c: -hugs- I hope your day gets better hon..
I have to agree with this xD I never liked the shoutbox :/ The Majority of the people there that i have seen tend to feel like theyre above others, they actually remind me of the people from neopets :/ If you want to socialize on subeta, I suggest Chit-chat :) Not as real time , but the people there are just as talkative and fart more friendly. And I doubt you'll find a community kinder than Subetas, I myself have not found one, Not that i need to search though xD
That's true XD
I never have it open.
I truly opened this thread just to say what Ariel did, but I feel that I should add this...
If you feel so strongly about leaving, just go, and don't make a fuss. Unless of course, this thread was created in the hopes that people would try and convince you to stay.
There really are plenty of nice people on Subeta, which you will discover if you spend time in other areas of the site, rather than basing your opinion on the Shoutbox.
As some others have said, I don't mean to be rude or obnoxious, or make you feel unwanted, so please don't misinterpret my post.
Nothing else needs to be said. :)
Speaking as a shoutboxer, we aren't that bad a people. We tend to be very sarcastic, you can always just close it, like the majority of subeta has. Being part of the reason you're leaving, srsly, it's not worth kicking up a fuss. Block and minimise.
That's all I can say. Bye. :D
