that taking it slow helps the relationship?

Tomorrow is my mine and my boyfriends one month (I know, not that long), and today was the first time that we really kissed. Though we've had a few problems, We haven't argued, we just sat down and talked about it. But I suppose that being best friends for a year and a half really helps that situation. We haven't even said "I love you!" yet.

Most of the time, when I see people just jump into things the relationship is over in a matter of days.

So what do you think? Prove me wrong, or prove me right. I want to hear what you think! :D

I think that it does help in a relationship if you take it slow, to be honest. If you jump into a relationship, it might end badly. You should allow time to get to know your boyfriend/girlfriend before you commit or anything. And being friends does help, I think, in some cases.

If one need to take it slow, then it is a good idea. In my case it helped, as I knew my boyfriend liked me before we got together. We took it slow because I wanted to be sure I got together with him because I really liked him, not because he was avaliable. We've been together for about a year now, and havn't had arguements either. We've had discussions and sometimes have been snappy with each other, but we know each other well enough to sit down and talk things through.

So slow can be good :)

i think it is dependent on the individuals in the relationship and how they feel things should progress.

personally, having issues within a month-long relationship that includes a year and a half of friendship is somewhat boding. i wish you luck..........