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Jun 8, 2009 16 years ago
Gloxinia
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My boyfriend and I just broke up our 8 month relationship, and I was crushed. I then found out one of my guy friends likes me, and I've been hanging out with him, and I'm starting to like him. My ex boyfriend was my first love, and he's moved on, because he likes someone else. I feel like I'm moving on too quickly..any advice? =/

Jun 8, 2009 16 years ago
wertgirlfor
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You can move on whenever you feel ready to. If you like him, and he likes you, I see no harm in it.

Jun 8, 2009 16 years ago
Mana_958
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No such thing as moving on too fast. When you're over it, you're over it. There's no amount of time you should have to mourn the relationship or anything. Go with what you're feeling, always :)

Jun 8, 2009 16 years ago
Gloxinia
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Aww thanks :)
You guys are right. Thanks for the help :D

Jun 8, 2009 16 years ago
Shatterstar
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As others have said, there is no such thing as moving on too quickly.

There is however, something as moving forward in a relationship too quickly due to other factors around you, that is something you might watch out for.

Hope this helped :D

Jun 8, 2009 16 years ago
Breve
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As long as you feel comfortable with this other guy, go for it!

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Jun 8, 2009 16 years ago
Kysnier
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There's a thing called rebound where you go out with someone after you break up so that you'll be with someone. As long as you're sure you're not rebounding, go with it n.n

Jun 9, 2009 16 years ago
Gloxinia
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Thanks everyone, I feel much better now :) I appreciate the help without people screaming at me for being naive 0.o

Jun 9, 2009 16 years ago
Discotastic
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I think that is a personal thing... After my first boyfriend, it took me a while to fully emotionally move on and I tried to rush it... After my last ex, it took me 2 weeks to start dating again, and it was probably the best choice I made..

If I end a relationship, I do try to give them some time, even if (like the last one) I ended it because I was already falling for someone else. (I tried to wait a month, but my current boyfriend really proved himself to me... and I couldn't take the chance of not dating him... Plus I was ready, and the ex didnt seem to be that attached (aka part of the reason for the break up in the first place)

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