to beat a guy up for relentlessly trying to get my girl for the past year (almost)?

even though me and gf have made it clear to him (actually, several hims) that it is not acceptable nor wanted.

No. Violence is not the answer.

ask yourself, "what would jesus do?"

but if you're already done it, i think the most manliest thing to do is to say sorry. or something.

i do not have a penis therefore i cannot help or understand you. :(

i think yes. as long as you didnt put him into ICU or anything.

I would have just ignored it. If you weren't worried about her getting with him it shouldn't have been a problem. He would have gotten tired of it eventually. Especially cause now you might have just escalated the situation.

You should totally kick his ass. But i am just a little crazy when it comes to my partner. If some chick was pushing up on him and i didnt think i liked it. I would so kick there ass. And really if you have told him to stay away and he wont. It may be time to let you boots do the talking. But like i said i am just a little crazy.

Good luck!

Violence is not the first road one should choose, but words have obviously failed. I don't mean 'beat up' as in, break his legs, but more of a 'seek violent confrontation'.

I like having people know who's boss when it comes to my relationship.

Pretty much yes.

Yeah. If it's been a year and you've tried to explain it, he deserves it.

This. :P

I say go for it.

Like you already said, don't break his legs or anything too dramatic, just let him get the hint so he knows not to mess around with you/your girlfriend. Enough so he just gets the hint (finally). I really hate people that try and intervene in other people's relationships /: People who do shit like that are kind of asking for it.

i see nothing wrong with an aggressive confrontation -- with the idea that should it come to blows, you would be ready.

Lame.

Personally, I don't think words got your message across. Your last and only resort seemed to be violence.

Plus, it's a chance to show your girl how manly you are :P

I think it would be fine, but then again, I'm a slightly violent person, and I'm a girl, so I'm not sure.

I've been asking myself the same question, and I've come close to attacking a certain guy. :/ But I'm a bit psychotic. So I don't think you should do anything I'm contemplating.

i've done it, and it ended well.

Scare him good, really good and then he will gtfo.

QTF

Do it. He'd have to finally get the message after you punch his teeth down his throat.

Do it XD then again, I'm quite violent.. XD but do it anyway!

Jesus could do whatever the hell he wanted to and not get in trouble, screw what Jesus would do right now.

Anyway, I'd say at first to yell at him and tell him to back off, and if that didn't work, go ahead and slap him around a bit.