Okay, So ive liked this guy for quite a while now. he has to be the sweetest and most funny guy in my life x3 ut anyways... he likes my Best friend. And I just found out that she likes him back... well, she was at my house thursday after school and we started to talk to him on MSN. He had no idea she was at my house and started to talk to only her- not us both (I have 2 computers, we were being geeks and talking to eachother on MSN while we talked beside eachother) He started calling her Cutie and saying that he liked her and... well, heres his quote:

I only like Alexis as a friend.

yes, im Alexis... i guess it better than nothing :P but what REALLY sucked it reading all this flirty crap he was saying to her. I really did start to cry o_o i swear I didnt meen to cry but I did. so she felt sad (for me) and told him that it could never be because I like him and she doesnt want us to stop being friends because of this matter. he was really sad... but after she when home i told him... and not even 10min later- he asked her out.

So the next day I went to school- everyone said i was acting depressed. which I guess i was... but He wouldnt stop asking me what was wrong and if i was mad at him. I would say that I was fine and that I wasnt mad at him and he just kept on asking. Even when I got home he asked me to tell him what was wrong over MSN... i wouldnt tell him, but SHE did. my best friend told him i was really upset tday because of what went on last night and that i really didnt want them to go out but was trying to be happy for them. then... HE FREAKIN ASKED ME IF IT WAS OKAY FOR HIM TO DATE MY BESTIE o_o of couse i said it was okay (as I cried ... im such a cry baby) god am i ever happy schools ganna end soon. I don`t wanna put up with this anymore....

sorry i just needed to tell someone, please if you want to share storys or advice then go ahead. thank you for reading. êdit: wow, that/s epic long. extra thanks to who ever reads all that o_o

My eyeballs are burning from all that text. - Anyways, that sucks. At least he asked you?

Aww, that's such a sad circumstance. =(

I'm sorry to hear that you were so hurt by it. It's really hard to get past something like that... I should know.

Two years ago, my good friend 'B' (For lack of using her real name.) and I both really liked two of the guys in our group of friends: 'K' and 'L'. We would giggle about them and discuss who was better at what and what we hoped for in the future... Then a bunch of things happened and K ended up asking B to prom.

She went with him without really realizing how much it hurt me, but being the friend I am, I didn't say anything about it; I wanted to be happy for her. Later that night at after prom, she actually remembered that I was there and asked if I was mad. I wasn't - just a bit disappointed. Things didn't work out between them as she would have hoped because K ended up getting back together with his ex girlfriend.

Then this year, before school got out, L started flirting with both me and my friend B. At the time, B was having problems with another boyfriend she had, so in a way, I was hoping that everything would work out between her and her boyfriend so that L and I could get together. Of course things didn't turn out that way and B ended up breaking up with her boyfriend. L, of course, was there right away to 'mend her broken heart'.

I honestly can't be mad at her for getting both guys. I really am happy that she has someone to watch out for her. But I know the feeling where your crush gets taken by your best friend.

B and I are still really good friends, granted that it's summer and we don't talk a whole lot anymore... But I didn't let it change things between us. Good friends are much harder to find then boyfriends. - So my advice to you is to find someone new that you can crush on. Sure, things may be awkward around the three of you for a while but just remember that everything happens for a reason.

Because of all that drama with B, K, and L, I found someone else that I can connect to and feel more comfortable around - more than I ever could have with K or L. We've only been going out three weeks, but I know that he's going to be here for me through anything.

Maybe this was meant to happen so that you can find someone better as well. =)

That must've been frustrating for you :( I would just try to ignore the fact that those two are dating and act as if nothing happened. Also, I'd try finding someone else, even if it sounds a bit hard in that situation :/

very frustrating... it sucks. BUT ANYWAYS, you guys have said find someone else to crush on... well, i would if I wasn`t so damn picky with guys xD