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Jun 5, 2009 16 years ago
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Take a break from relationships, although I am not agreeing with the person you called you a whore, I can see why he said it. I've seen your posts, you should take a break from relationships for awhile.

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Jun 5, 2009 16 years ago
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I don't think you are :c It's not wrong to love someone you broke up with Talk to him over the summer, not obsessively, take a break from boyfriends, just talk to him like a friend, don't tell him, and maybe by the time school starts again he'll be willing to have you back, or maybe you won't want him anymore who knows hmm?

Hope this helps c:

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Jun 5, 2009 16 years ago
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Adakias

it sounds like you need to learn to be single.

it's okay to not have a boyfriend. try it.

Jun 5, 2009 16 years ago
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Well, yes; it's perfectly understandable to like someone/want them/love them, but maybe you don't need a relationship with them, per se. Just try being his friend for awhile before you start another relationship.. :/

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Jun 5, 2009 16 years ago
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Well, you are not a whore. Maybe you''ve taken some wrong choices now and then, but that doesn't make you a whore.

You should talk to Sam and explain the situation. But I agree with others, take it slow if there's a chance you will get back together.

Jun 6, 2009 16 years ago
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Take a break from the love life. Maybe later,you'll be able to take him back,maybe not. I bet you've heard this before but ther IS a lot of fish in the sea. There will be one just right for you.

Jun 6, 2009 16 years ago
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Yeah I was single for two years, I know how to be, I am tried of it. When I get upset I need someone to hold me, my girl friends can&;t do that. I care about Sam a lot, I am going to take a break but I know how to be alone.</p>
<p>I&;ve wanted him for three years, I&;m not going to stop wanting him.

Aren't you like, 15?

You're a little young to be going through this shit. I agree that you need to learn to be single. You clearly aren't mature enough to understand that love doesn't come that easily. That shit takes time.

Also. The only reason it seems that you want a boyfriend is to get the benefits. Seriously. That's a TERRIBLE thing to do. Friends can hold you. Friends can help you through tough times. You don't need a boyfriend for all of that. Sadly. I agree with your friend. You're throwing around relationships like a used sweater. Stop it before you destroy your dignity.

And you WILL stop wanting him. You're going through something called 'puppy love'.

Jun 6, 2009 16 years ago
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your not a whore, but like everyone else is saying, you need to slow down. I don't know how old you are, but it doesn't sound like you entirely understand how relationships work. It seems more like you want to have a boyfriend for all of the wrong reasons. Think about these things before you jump into them, and if you've thought it through and your SURE you know what your doing, the go ahead and stick with the dude of your choice. If you have ANY doubts though, just take it easy for a while. Chicks before dicks x3

Jun 6, 2009 16 years ago
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Hmm.. I kinda agree with everyone. NO you're no whore. Whores do it for money.

But.. that is a pretty bad move going after someone else so soon. Sam could take you back just by playing on your emotions and manipulating you. And that would be a dick move on his part. D<

I really don't think you should go into the dating scene just yet.. from what I'm hearing, you don't truly understand what it is to be single. Or.... you do... but you don't understand how to work with it. In order to be single, you have to be content with yourself, use the time for personal self growth, and learn confidence in yourself without the aid of others telling you how to comfort or be happy. It's okay to want someone to be there for you. We're human. But surely you don't need a boyfriend for that. Everyone has someone who simply cares. And that should be appriciated. I think, you have an esteem issue.

If you want to talk to Sam about what happened with Brandon, go for it. But if Sam does want you back, and he says so himself.. the bravest thing for you to do is just say that even if you do have feelings for him... you need some time to think for yourself. I think there's inner heroism in that at this point. Don't let your emotions control your every move. Use your head too.

Figure out the definition of boyfriend.

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Jun 10, 2009 16 years ago
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no your not BUT give it a while before you dive right in

Jun 10, 2009 16 years ago
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If you have bad self esteem having a boyfriend cuddle you isn't going to help. You need to get out on your own and learn to be okay with yourself. Boys are great but I agree that you are using them for the wrong reason. A boy cant teach you self esteem, only you can.

Jun 13, 2009 16 years ago
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It doesn't sound like you're a whore, but you are too young to be going through this crap. I'm agreeing with everyone else. Take a break. You're only 15, you aren't really in love with this dude. You just feel like you are. Having some dude just to cuddle with isnt love. Is you being desperate.

Jun 13, 2009 16 years ago
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it sounds like you need to learn to be single.</p>
<p>it&;s okay to not have a boyfriend. try it.
This.

It's alright to be single, it won't kill you :x

Give it a try.

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Jun 14, 2009 16 years ago
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I am called ugly and all that stuff everyday at school.

O_____o Uhm... what happened to you. I thought you are so pretty. D:

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Jun 14, 2009 16 years ago
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Ok I was so on your side until you posted that you arent "pretty enough" for other guys. WHO told you this? The guy that wants you? If that is the case you sooooooooo shouldnt be with him. And if it is YOU who thinks this, then you need to stay out of a relationship until you have enough selfworth, that you dont think you are pretty. That is sad to say about your self. You need to learn to love YOU. you do NOT need some one else to love you. If you cant love your self then no one else will either.

But thats just me. You do what you want.

PS> I dont think you are a whore. Just not ready for a real relationship is all.

PPS. It is not creepy for a girl to hold you when you feel down. Unless you got some nasty friends trying to feel you up. Thats just silly.

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