Okay, so I've been ranting about this guy that I like for ahwile now... Well, he finally asked me on a date, and we talk on the phone more often and stuff now...

Well, now more problems have developed... Okay, so I've two guy friends... Let's call them Friend A and Friend B. The guy that I like is Friend C.

Okay, so I was swimming with all my friends, including Friend A, B, and C. So, Friend C was trying to get me alone so he could ask me out, and Friend A kept interrupting us, and not wanting us alone, and flirting with me and stuff... Which makes my mom and me think that he likes me.

Friend B kept teasing me, and all that. Okay, and Friend B talks about me constantly to his mom, and she tells my mom, so it's obvious that Friend B likes me....

All the events and some others make me and my female friends think that Friend A and Friend B like me. And Friend C likes me, and I like Friend C....

Well, Friend A, B and C are all best friends, and I'm so afraid that if I start dating friend C that Friend B and Friend A will be upset, and not want to be friends with me or Friend C...

I don't know what to do. Friend A and Friend B are both really good friends, and Friend A is going through a tough time, and Friend B has a rough past, so I don't want to hurt them, but I want to be happy, and I really want to be with Friend C...

Subeta, have you had similar situations? And what do you think I should do?

I would agree, talk to them and sort it out that way. If all three likes you, it's obvious you can't please them all.

Yeah, I guess. The guys are all fifteen by the way, and so am I... I want to be with C and we talk a lot. I don't know. Maybe you two are right. Thanks for the advice. If it turns out that the other two like me, and C likes me, then I'll explain to A and B that I just want to be friends, and then try to be with C....

It's possible that they just like you as a friend, but now that you might start dating they feel like they could lose you (making them think they like you as more or just making them jealous). That happens a lot more than you'd think.

Either way though, whether they really are crushing on you or not, you've got to do what you want. You can't let someone else's feelings interfere with any relationship you might have. It's just between you and "C". Nobody else.

meh... they are 15 year old boys... i'd think that 'like' is purely hormonal and nothing too serious. regardless, you can't have them all so i wouldn't worry about spoiling my chances with A and B just because you want to date C.