I can't believe how much people piss me off. They really do. I'm seriously just... ugh. FULL OF HATE. Bleh.

So, basically, this girl I know from school is just using me. She talks to me on her terms only, and will ignore me when my other friend is there. I've left school now, but because of that, it's got worse! She doesn't want to see me, fobbing me off with the excuse that she's 'busy', but then she goes out with my other friend just FINE. ARGH. I want to tell her to fuck off, but I'm too nice. She just gets my goat, to be honest. I'm glad I don't have to see her everyday, or I'll end up smacking her shitless.

Ever had a friend use you/treat you like you're invisible until you're the only one left/been the biggest pain in the arse EVER?

/endrant.

XD I've been there. I told that friend to go die in a hole after a while. I try my best not to be nice to assholes.

Argh, I probably will end up saying something like that. We've had our share of fights, to be honest, some of them were ridiculously bad. But she shouldn't have lied about certain fathers and abuse coming from them. :/

:/ :/ :/ I'm going to kill her one day, I think.

I had a friend once who pretty much used me as her emotional punching bag and pretty much would intimidate me to get me to do what she wanted. She never listened to me when I wanted to talk.

So after school ended two years ago, I e-mailed her and told her to stop talking to me and trying to be my friend. And I told her very clearly I thought she was a selfish bitch. c:

I felt so so so much better afterwards. xD

Moral of the story: If you don't like somebody, then you don't have to talk to them or be their "friend".

I really don't like her, I just can't find the heart to tell her I don't like her. I said that before, and she... I don't know, she emotionally blackmailed me almost into being her friend again. She started saying stuff that really got to me, such as, "I really need you" and "I can't live without you. I love you." It was weird. I just felt so damned guilty. But then she treated me like shit again. It's like a circle. :/

I've had something like that happen to me too. It sucks, but you just got to tell her that you do not want to be friends with her anymore. Then do whatever you can to stay away from her till she gets it.

The girl who I'd called my best friend, which she also claimed, now only talks to me when she wants to see if I can get her any ..."substance." -_-;

WHICH I NEVER CAN SO wtf leave me alone i guess daaaaang.

I'll be honest, I have never had it done to me, but I did do it to another person.

When it was just the two of us, it was fine. She always acted normal, nice, and intelligent. When we were with a group of people, she acted like a complete moron. She even hit one of my friends upside the head just because he interrupted her.

I thought maybe she was just acting weird because she was nervous around others. So I gave it a while and she never changed. Eventually it just became too much and I was tired of making excuses as my friends wouldn't hang out if she was also there. She did not take it well when I ended the friendship and told her why. After that, I just became impossibly blunt as I didn't want to go through it ever again.

It's a douche thing to do. But if she keeps rejecting you, why do you keep trying?

O.o i don't remember.... i don't really get in that position. but still i don't remember....

Yup. She was my best friend for 6 years. She stole my stuff, was uber competitive with me, yelled at me for the smallest reasons, and was overall snotty.

So, after a year of her ignoring me, she randomly calls me up and says she's sorry for being a bitch all those years. So, I give her a second chance, and after a month she's back to being a bitch. And then she starts ignoring me AGAIN! So, now I'm just going to hope our contact with each other fades over time. If it doesn't, I don't know what I'll do. :(

I've been in a similar situation. Just nothing mean really occured. I'd go to lunch, and then someone else would sit down, and she would talk to me only her friend wasn't there, but otherwise, I was ignored. :/ it was kind of like I was being used to entertain this person I didn't know that well :p

If you don't like her, put your niceness at the corner and tell her to stfu. It's pretty worse when people make you feel invisible but you like them. /:

You aren't "too nice", you are too weak.

Ugh. I hate people like that. My friend is like that. She has used me twice now, just so she could see her friend/boyfriend/i don't even know what he is to her. It pisses me off. I'm just gonna stop letting her do it. It's not my life or my relationship.

I used to have a friend sort of like that, way back in highschool. She would get really depressed and lean on everyone for support. Which was ok to begin with- her parents were going through a divorce, and it was causing a lot of emotional stress and problems for her when she already had depression problems to begin with. But then it just kept going, even after the divorce was over and everything started working itself back out... she refused to go to therapy even though she had the depression problem to begin with and really needed it (it was really severe), and then would just lean on everyone and complain complain complain, and then go all, 'no one cares about me, no one ever tries to help me~' even though me and several other people had been trying too for quite a while. She just wouldn't let anyone help her, and basically got to the point where she was just dragging everyone down with her. It was really pretty shitty. And as me, I have my own depression and anxiety problems to deal with, and it got to the point where I just couldn't take on hers and mine, and told her that if she wanted to still be friends, she wasn't allowed to do that anymore... it worked for a little bit, but then she went back into it again and I had to just totally dropped her. I felt a little bad, but... I needed to take care of myself.

Funny that I'm back to being friends with her again, but this is years later, and she's finally got herself sorted out and doesn't drag you down anymore, which is good.

I've had a few friends like that, it really sucks. One just used me until a fight with one of their other friends blew over, and then ignored me for nearly a year. I finally saw her again only to find that she'd been feeding my boyfriend at the time bad advice about me so I'd break up with him so she could get with him. Now they're engaged.

Some of my other friends just don't talk to me until they have nothing better to do, and call me up. It really kind of pisses me off but, I've told a few of them to go play in traffic. They got really pissed but, at this point I don't care too much. After that last incident, my reasoning is they're either my friends or they're not; you can only try too much before the other people have to try as well.

i get so pissed at some people. my friend will only hang out with me at HER HOUSE or the barn.

then she talks about me behind my back

It sucks, I'm going through that road right now. I have a friend that I was always there for when she needed me. From things as simple as giving her a ride when her parents was to helping her out so that her grade wouldn't drop for one class. And she never really repaid it, only a few times... But that's kind of the least of our problems right now. Now she's talking behind my friends' backs, which is really ticking me off. I'm like you, I'm nice. And I don't confront her...

But really, good luck with your situation. Hopefully it turns out better.

Kind of. Nothing as big as what is going on with you though.

When i was in fifth grade (im in ninth now) there was this girl Britney that was friends with my other friend Ashley. One day she invited me to have a sleepover. I said yes. During the sleepover, we had fun. On the monday, I said Hi to her, and she was all, "Stop saying Hi to me. I dont like you. I only hung out with you because I needed something to do."

Something along those lines. And yeah, it really annoyed me.

possum.. you need to give yourself the value you deserve FIRST!

          decide what that is FIRST!! set it in your mind and honor it.

           they will not have a choice to be with you as last choice.

           close the door that you want closed inside your head..so you know 

           WHAT you will accept.  but knowing your worth/value is important to 

          find out and define.  g'luck