i don't know why i came hear to talk about that, maybe because i pass more at 10 hour on is site web ... But something bad happen to me is afternoon and i need advice to deal with what happen...

i get force to sleep with a guy and it afraid me and cant deal with that more longer i dont know what to do and i dont even know why i come hear to talk...

hugs I'm sorry you're hurt. I wish I could physically hug you.

I don't know quiet what to say to ease your pain, but its good that you came to speak about it. You shouldn't hold things like that to yourself. Who was this man to you?

I friend ... That still hurt me a bunch and it happen today ... I know is good talk about that but is a pain in my heart since he was a good friend Thank for the

Yes, the pain will be with you for a very long time. I wouldn't put myself in a situation that would allow it to happen again. If he hurt you like that, I wouldn't consider him a friend any longer. He might even think about doing it once more. Honestly if that was me, I'd cut all ties to him. Someone who truly cares about you (friend or lover) wouldn't force themselves onto you....in any situation.

Are you in a place where you can cut all ties to him?

yes i can easily cut all tie to him

Good. If I was you I'd cut that monster out of my life. Lose his number, facebook, everything you ever knew about him. When you see him on the streets, pretend like he's a stranger. The moment he hurt you like that, he no longer was your friend Moe.

i will i just hope he won hurt any other girl ... because when he start and even if you say no he dont stop

Its not your fault this happened, I know some people tend to think it is. hugs You don't have to let this happen to other women, you can save them from your pain still.

I'd speak to someone RL that you trust, tell them what happened. Teacher, Mother, Coach, Friend's mom, rape crisis center, 911.

After that I'd try to go to a hospital or rape crisis center, even if you do not want to report the event. Even if you do not think you are injured you might wanna get tested for infections...either through the hospital or through a rape crisis center. This is a terrible...terrible thing this man has done to you. This could effect the rest of your life I'd try getting counseling from professionals that can help you heal further.

maybe your right maybe is the best think to do... go talk to some one... it horrible that all

Yes, its one of the most horrible things that can happen to a person. Don't just wash it off as nothing. While all you want to do is forget about it, the damage is done. You were hurt both physically and mentally. Just remember that anything that happened that day wasn't your fault, the way he hurt you wasn't your fault. There are some online support groups you can speak about it (When you're ready) or talk to a counselor to help you through it.

I know it doesn't seem like much, but i'm here to talk if you need me.

http://www.rainn.org/get-help http://www.rapeis.org/support.html

Thank you for all and I will the the web site next to me ... I still have to say that to my parent and cops I'm afraid of what can happen

hugs Well I wish you the best.

Be strong my friend, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Thank you <3

Please, honey, please talk to the police / your parents or better yet, both. A friend would not do that to you. I stayed in a situation like that and it only got worse. is right-- it is not your fault and don't ever think it was. From the sounds of it, he is older, yes? People will be 100% behind you, I promise. It might be difficult and scary at this time, but you will be stronger as time goes on. But as you are worried that he may do this to someone else, you do need to let someone know.

Let me know how it goes. Sending you all the positive love and hugs in the world. ❤️

- WHY AREN'T YOU AT THE POLICE STATION OR A HOSPITAL OR SOMETHING REPORTING THIS ?!

I go see the police is morning and my parent was with me and i send a message to my best friend and she still don't answer me i feel like she don't care. and i,m scared that situation happen again since i don't know how to defense my self . and i know i don't have to feel guilty but i,m the one who say yes you can came at my home ... Like i say i don't know why i came on subeta first... the only reason i think is because i escape because of subeta

- Well thank god. I was honestly wondering why you'd be here and not at the police. Your friend, if she doesn't care, isn't a friend. DO NOT BE ALONE TODAY. For your own safety do NOT BE ALONE TODAY. DO NOT contact that guy, or allow him contact with you in ANY way, If he calls, ignore it. If he talks to you, scream fire. If he comes to your place, call the police immediately.

i wont never talk to him back since he hurt me to life and yes he is more older that me i have 20 and he have 26

Well done for going to the police and telling your parent. I hope they are supportive of you. I am sure your best friend will answer you soon-- maybe she is in shock. However, if she doesn't answer you, then you do not need people like that in your life. She should believe you over anyone-- especially someone who has groomed you. It doesn't matter that you invited him over, he was a friend, it is normal to invite your friends over. It is not normal for someone to take advantage and keep going when you say no. Your parents should be able to protect you now, and hopefully, so will your friends. Just ignore any texts or messages he sends you and hopefully that should be enough. Do not be scared- it will be okay. ❤️

Don't worry- it will all be okay.

thank you and i hope she answer me soon since she was the first i send the message yestarday if she dont answer me i wont talk to her anymore i prefer dont have friend that friend dont want to help me