My wife and I today found out we had a miscarriage, we were 6 1/2 weeks along. She is very devastated by this and I am at a loss of what to do besides comfort her as much as I can. I am trying to keep strong to keep our hopes up and strong but I just don't know what else to do. I ask for anyone who reads this to keep us in your thoughts and prayers as we go through this difficult time.

I'm so sorry about your loss ): comforting her is really all you can do unfortunately. It may seem like nothing can make her happy or bring her mood up now, but in the long run always being there to support her to matter what will show her that she is loved regardless. Definitely sending some good thoughts your way!

This website has some wonderful charms that actually really helped me when I lost my baby. Go through it with your wife, maybe get something together. It's harder on her, but remember you're mourning together.

I am so sorry for your lost. A notice like that can be indeed very devastating. Try to be with her as much time as you can, snuggle, hug her. Make her feel super loved because most of the time a woman will think it is her fault. Don't let her. You're in my thoughts and prayers ^_^

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.

Consider it done.

Just keep trying to comfort her. Is there anyone you can talk to also?

I'm sorry for your loss. Keeping you guys in my thoughts. You're doing all you can, listen genuinely to what she says and just keep being there to comfort her. Don't hesitate to call the hotline on this website though if YOU need someone to talk to. here is the site for miscarriage support and there's different phone numbers if you or your wife want to talk to someone Sending you both comforting thoughts at this time.

I am so sorry, and I will definitely pray for you and your wife. While I have never experienced this myself, my mother has more than once, and I know it was difficult for the whole family. We did pick out names for the unborn children, and released balloons into the sky in a little personal "service" for them. I hope that despite this heartbreak, you are able to have some joy, peace and comfort this holiday. hugs

You both will be in my thoughts & prayers

Big hugs to you and your wife.

My niece was born prematurely earlier in the year while my sister was 22 weeks pregnant. She died when she was 7 days old. :( She was a beautiful little thing and I'm grateful to have known her even though just for a short time.

The good news is my sister is now pregnant again. :) Everyone is terrified, but we're also really excited and looking forward to having a new baby in the family. :)

I guess my point is that it's hard, but there is still hope. Sometimes the doctors can't work out why these things happen and you just have to hope that it won't happen again. My sister and brother in law did some fund raising for a charity that helps families with premature babies. Possible it may help you and your wife to do similar for a charity that researches miscarriages or supports families? x

just be there for her and stay strong > My sister had a miscarrige and she was depressed for awhile. Just have to be there and give her a shoulder to cry on.

I'm very sorry for you loss. Like everyone else said, keep her close and remind her you love you. Maybe try making her a home cooked dinner if she has an appetite. You and your wife are in my thoughts.