i tried SubetaLodge but it takes me weeks to browse trough, i need your help right about now

If you do a search in the subeta wardrobe under 'all items on subeta' and type in something like helmet, paldrons, chest plate, etc., all the items available to wear should pop up. You can also look into the flame of red rreign, serrated seraph, lost school boy, graves and goblins and forj tempered sets just to name a few.