Is there a way to build or go through a bunch of items that you can put together a "dream" avatar build or something? It might be a big ask but I haven't been able to find something like this yet so I am hoping to pick the brains of other users. <3

do you mean being able to see all items on site? if so you can do that by tweaking this wardrobe option:

Thank you so much! I will take a look at that. I feel dumb now because I have looked at that many times but just ignored it. <3

please don't feel dumb, there are a lot of options to mess with so it's easy to miss something! glad you found what you needed