Hello all.

Bit of an odd one but here goes. About 15 years ago I created my account after just turning 13. Sometime in 2008-2010 I made a friend via the HA games forums and here in the Roleplaying forums.

We roleplayed together often, chatted via smail, and they even introduced me to the webcomic Looking For Group.

Unfortunately after a while of getting back into Subeta during the pandemic lockdowns I noticed this message on their profile: "This account belongs to a deceased user, and the username will not be cleared." I decided not to look into it but lately I've been playing more and finding myself thinking about them. I reached out to the Help forums and they let me know this wasn't against the rules.

So here I am to ask in case someone knew them or remembers roleplaying with us. I'd love to hear from you. My username back then was TreyDreyAnne and my profile would have featured heavy amounts of hot pink and green. Kupo typically used they/them pronouns but roleplayed male characters. Their HA back then was a a kind of succubus/incubus. Unfortunately everything was so long ago there's no history of it that I can find.

I was just hoping to find out anything more about their passing and if they have other Subeta friends who'd be willing to chat with me. And if someone out there reading this was their friend outside of the internet, it would mean a lot to me to talk to you. Kupo meant a lot to me and I would love to share with someone/let someone know that this person made a big impact on a young artsy girl on the internet.

Thanks!

Hi!

Kupo was a very dear friend of mine, We first met on neopets if I remember right then when a bunch of us from neo moved over here we stayed good friends. I used to be bubblyfungirl then bubbly then i ISSed to Cream. I don't know who all you remember from back in the day or who kupo might of mentioned but some of us are still here.

Oh my gosh, this is such a sad shock 😥!! I'm pretty sure all of us used to run around together on the Shoutbox back in the day! Before I ISS'D myself, I went by TheWonderFox. I want to say around 2007 - 2010 was the time we all hung out together. My memory is total shit, so while I can't remember too many details, I definitely remember all of us dorking around together back in the day!

Thank you both so much for your responses! It means a lot to me!

Both usernames bubblyfungirl and TheWonderFox seem so familiar but I don't know that I'm not just making that up. bubblyfungirl seems to really jog something though. And oh my gosh the shoutbox used to be so happenin... how times have changed.

Honestly wish I had invested more time and energy into the connections I was making back then, but unfortunately I was just an emo kid with no real grasp of the other people on the other side of the screen.

Hi all! I'm sorry for your loss!

Good luck finding the rest of Kupo's friends!

I have fond memories of Cass/Kupo but our friendship was primarily around our usage of the Shoutbox. So unfortunately I did not know them outside of subeta. You can always try the wayback machine to see old versions of their profile to see if there are any links to their outside subeta profiles anywhere. They knew me since I too was 13. I have Mom brain now, so your previous and current username do not seem familiar to me. However, I am always open to having conversations and being a sounding board for almost anything. I hope you can get the answers you are seeking.

Thank you for the tag. It was nice to think of Kupo again.

~ Thank you! I can't believe I didn't even think of wayback machine. I'll let you know if I find anything.

[Edit] I did look into the Wayback Machine and while I found links to their youtube channel (which I was looking for and hoping to find), it seems that it's no longer active or accessible. Based on the information there it seems we were friends on skype at one point. Either way, it was nice to be reminded of all the dr who fangirling we did together and see their old HA's. Thank you so much for the recommendation.

You all have provided me with a lot of comfort over this. Lots of gratitiude.

Ahhh I was just thinking about kupo the other day. I saw the profile awhile ago and wondered what happened and messaged some people but no one knew. But has been on my mind for awhile ):

I met kupo when I first joined subeta back when I was 13 back in like…2005? I used to be dreamcatcher then pommede_sang Most of our interactions were small and we would just draw random things, not sure if we ever roleplayed. I met her through another user who might’ve roleplayed but not sure

I wish I had reached out more, I’ve been off and on subeta taking breaks, so when I saw after coming it was a bit of a shock. I think I still have some stuff on photobucket from some interactions but also. I was a very annoying child hahaha. I might’ve been more of a nuisance haha

[edit] Not sure how many of you are active still or around or how close ya'll were, everyone else I couldn't remember or they're inactive ;__;

I know lipe was a real good friend of kupo's as well. Perhaps they might have an answer.

I'm super happy to talk with you anytime you like and I am so glad I could help bring some of us together. It's hard for me to really sit down and describe what kupo was to me because they were different. Kupo was a constant in my life for a lot of years, someone I could rely on, they gave me stability when I needed it most and I am thankful for their existence.

I love you always, My friend. <3

Oh man. Yes. I saw their profile too a while ago. :c

I spoke to Kupo on and off when I was still new but contact grew a little less over the years as they seemed so busy.

I still remember however calling the Kupopo.

I will also always remember them as a fun person who was friendly and easy to chat with. <3

Do you bychance remember running a mutant highschool roleplay for a while? I think that's where I remember "bubblyfungirl" from.

But yes, it's hard to capture the impact that Kupo had. In all honesty they were one of the first people I ever had an internet crush on where it didn't really matter how they gender-identified. They were such a fun and amazing person. I remember watching their youtube videos and laughing and thinking, wow, I really like who this person IS.

Thank you again for taking your time for this. At the least, I can be glad if my search has brought more love to their memory.

thank you so much for the ping, Cream.

i refuse to believe what i just read. i hate this, Kupopo.

You're welcome, You wouldn't by chance know of anyone outside of subeta or even on subeta that could possibly know what happened to Kupo, Would you? Someone had to give proof in order for the account to be labeled as belonging to a deceased user so and some others have been trying to find out more about what happened or who else kupo was super close with as well as just trying to gather kupo's friends in general . No one has gotten any answers as of yet though and any help at all is super appreciated.

im afraid I dont even recall the username very clearly but i'm sorry to hear that another subeta user has passed. i've been pretty inactive for the last few years so I wouldn't be any help as i've lost touch with most if not all of my old subeta friends. sorry.

I remember Kupo. I do not know anything more than the people here seem to. I am sorry for not being able to help.

oh no this is so heartbreaking :( I haven't been around much in the last few years, life got crazy. I adored kupo. I wish I could be more help but I hadn't spoken to them in years, and of course now regret not keeping in touch.

I used to talk to Kupo a lot on here (not personal stuff though)

Also I have been Mirror the whole time, perhaps Flem also rings a bell many years ago!

thanks all for joining the conversation. It's honestly just been nice to take a moment to remember so I appreciate any contribution/memories no matter how small <3

I don't remember when I met kupo, but I remember they were an absolute sweetheart. They introduced me to a bunch of new music years ago. Learning thag they had passed is absolute heartbreaking..

~ seems to be a common theme that Kupo loved introducing people to the things they loved <3