I've been in and out of the er with different health issues, taking care of my disabled dad and in laws, both me and wife's dads got diagnosed with different types of cancer I got a melanoma removed

Last ER visit we found out I have really bad kidney stones and a grapefruit sized lump in my uterus FINALLY was on my way to the OBGYN to schedule getting that out of me

and I got t-boned

I'm REALLY happy I have medicaid coverage bc I had to be taken to the ER via ambulance and like I already lost my job because I kept getting sick but we just REALLY didn't need it and our car is totalled and I'm supposed to keep my blood pressure down because of the concussion but it's fucking rough

for the record, wife and I are both relatively okay other than my concussion+whiplash soreness and her back and I'm aware it could have been much worse I'm just Very Stressed and at a loss for what to do

gosh, that sounds rough. you're so strong for enduring through it all! health issues are always the worst. wishing you and your loved ones well wishes! <3

That is a lot of health issues, my condolences. The only advice I can think to give is, take everything one day at a time and start with baby steps. Only handle what you know you are capable of handling for now, tackle the bigger stuff later if you can. Try not to over whelm yourself, and maybe a few warm baths to soothe the anxiety/stress. O.O

For what it's worth, you're not alone. It's been a terrible year for just about everyone I know. I hope things improve for you, and I hope next year turns out to be much better than this one, for everybody's sake. Try to go easy on yourself (easier said than done, I know.) and rest as much as you can while your body is recovering from the car wreck.