Serious question.

That's kind of a hard thing for strangers to answer, but for what it's worth, I have seen a few of your posts and I don't get a bad impression from them, no

I wouldn't say you were toxic from what you've posted. You are blunt, which can come across negatively, especially in writing where we can't see body language or hear tone of voice. Being blunt is not a bad trait, but its likely the source of the feedback you've been getting.

Honestly I just don't think Subeta is the right fit for you, Perhaps you'd be more suited for neopets.

... That's just rude.

I simply feel subeta isn't what meets this users needs, I feel other sites would be more suited to what they desire so no it wasn't rude. Honestly I am offended by their many negative posts in regards to what they feel is being done wrong on subeta (which is nearly everything).

I definitely haven't read 's posts as rude. Some are a bit blunt, like said, but some of the responses they've received have definitely come across as more rude than the posts themselves IMO. The fact that they made this post in the first place shows that they care about how they come across and maybe they should get the benefit of the doubt.

You're not rude, you're nude.

Seriously though, I don't see anything you've posted as toxic. You have questions and you ask them. You're learning the site. Some folks forget that everyone has to go through a learning curve on a site that's new for them.

Don't worry about asking those questions. Most of us are pretty chill about answering and offering advice where we can.

genuinely toxic people dont usually worry about whether or not they're toxic. I think people use the word "toxic" too loosely anyways. Its fine to make mistakes and grow from them.

judging from your posts though, I think you just need to understand that the fact that Subeta is even still running is a labor-of-love in of itself. Its a small site these days, so I do think you maybe need to cut the staff some slack tbh

I don't believe there are such things as toxic people. If you feel that way, you should look for therapy! I'm in therapy since I was 12yo and it helped me a lot to deal with things in my life. I hope you are well and if you need to talk about what you're feeling, just mail me!