I've tried asking on a couple of Facebook groups, but either no one knows or no one wants to answer, so I'm giving it a shot in the dark on here. I've never done mods before for any games, but I really want to try some for Fallout 4 because it is absolutely my favorite game ever and I have literally had at least a half dozen playthroughs. I want to do something different this time though, so no more vanilla for me. I've got a list of what mods I want to try...which is currently at home next to my Xbox while my ass is at work...I'll post it later if anyone can help me. I have an Xbox series x and I have maybe 7 or 8 mods I want to try and I'm told I'm royally screwed if I don't put them in the right order.

Anyways, hopefully someone can help...I don't want to risk making my Xbox explode or anything lol

This may help. It doesn't list specific mods, but types of mods. Should give you some idea of what should go where. https://www.reddit.com/r/Fallout4Mods/comments/ug1uin/are_there_any_good_load_order_guide_for_fallout_4/i731h2h/

If you need further help, I'm sure someone in that Reddit community can guide you through it.