Anyone else have a toxic sibling that has treated you horrible most of your life?

I'm sorry for what you go through. I have no siblings. this doesn't mean i get along well with my family. same goes for my partner. We both don't want to (have to) interact with out respective parents. Sometimes, just cutting a person out of your life is the best thing you can do for yourself.

If you have to share the same house... i'd try to learn some karate kicks or something, and ask the sibling why on earth are they acting so shitty towards me. Sometimes, bullies are taken aback when confronted and might back down.

Well, sorry, i don't have any piece of advice more than this. i hope you'll figure it out and i believe things will get better for you once you manage to put some distance between you and that sibling of yours. If you find it ard because blood is thicker than water, trust me i know. just sometimes, there's no other way.

I wish you all the best. happy holidays!

Luckily we do not share a house. and yes sometimes there's no other way.

I did....til I got him disowned. Lifes been much better since

I was horrible to my brother for most of our childhood and adolescence. It took years of therapy for me to figure out that I treated him badly, apologize, and work together to rebuild our relationship.

It's okay to walk away from your sibling if you need to, and it's okay if you talk to them and you decide to work on that relationship.

The decision depends on what you believe is best for you at that moment. I hope you are well and safe.