I have gotten a few messages asking where I have been, so I thought I should post and let all my Subeta buddies know what's up.

In the past six weeks I have helped my parents move out of their home of 40 years (and into an assisted living apartment), my aunt died, my husband's knee has given out and he is scheduled for a partial replacement in 3 weeks, my son is having his gallbladder removed (and I can't travel to be with him because hubby needs me here). On top of all that, I am waiting to see an electrophysiology cardiologist to address some arrhythmias I am having headdesk

As you can imagine, my anxiety and stress levels are high right now. In my "spare time", I generally sleep! I am not quitting, but my play time here is sparse right now - I am mostly quickly popping in and out. I hope to spend a bit more time here for the upcoming holiday!

Thanks to those who sent messages (You missed me!)

You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. HUGS

sorry to hear hun, cant recall if we are in contact elsewhere off top of my head at least. but if we are and need to chat drop me a note

Good to hear from you, but sorry to hear it's such tough times for you! Each of those happenings would be quite trying on their own (to say the least), but yeesh, ain't it true that when it rains, it pours. D:

I have missed you quite a bit, dear . I hope things get better for you, that your husband and son do well with their surgeries, and I hope YOU find out what's going on with your heart. Much love, my friend <3 Take care out there. Know that we miss you here but that real life comes first, always!

so much going on for you, always thinking of you hope things get better soon. I have to deal with afib don't want the surgery and pills are working, don't want put to sleep anymore so they can shock my heart back into rhythm. I'm super low salt and decaf now to keep heart from hitting 120plus lol. Take care of yourself eat right with plenty of water hun, big bear hugs your friend Marty:-)

Sounds like you have a lot on your plate. snugs I'll be thinking of you. Take care of yourself and your family. <3

sending all the love and hugs your way.

, I'm so sorry to hear that so much has been going on for you as of late, Subeta and your friends will always be here for you, so please make sure you are taking good care of yourself (as well as your loved ones!) during this time ♡♡♡

That's a whole lot for any one person to deal with. Take all the time you need to take care of your family and yourself! ❤

It sounds like you're going through a lot and taking some well-deserved time to try your best to reset and rest. I certainly can't blame you for your absence. I'm mainly a lurker on SB but I always do love watching your conversations when I happen to be on when you are.

I hope that everything is going to work out - you've been dealt a lot of hard cards, with a lot of emotional anchors dragging them down, but it sounds like your family is there for each other, and I'm glad for that. We're here if you need someone to talk to, at any time.

I'm not sure if you're religious, but I'll be keeping you and your family in my prayers if that's all right.

I'm so sorry for everything that's been going on and for the loss of your aunt hugs Please do what you can to take care of yourself! I hope both surgeries for your husband and son go well and that you can get some answers regarding your heart ❤️

Sending my best vibes your way. I hope you're able to get some much needed rest. May the slumbers that find you be pleasant ones.

Good luck and take care.