bc i see them online on discord a decent amt... but they barely ever respond 2 anything anymore... ik their job keeps them pretty busy but idk its just strange. obv im not gna b like HEY DO U H8 ME ARE U IGNORING ME HUH HUH HUH bc well that is not a way 2 get ppl 2 want 2 avoid u less. but i cant help feeling like i did or said smth stupid tht they dont wanna deal w anymore

like is it wack tht i told them my grandpa (who theyve met) got open heart surgery and i still havent gotten a response but theyve def been online multiple times since i sent the message??

also i wanna say im not like drowning them in messages. just a few mostly low-importance things at once most (grandpa news is an exception) and then if they reply its days later and usually just 2 talk abt themselves

this kind of friendship is so draining, like you start to feel like just a wall for them to bounce their monologue off of

hope your friend starts being more considerate, yeah people get busy but they could take a few minutes to support you when you're going through something

Sorry you're going through this. It's hard to know if people are "ignoring" you just because you see them online, but it's not great that they haven't responded about your grandfather or just whatever you sent them recently. Maybe they've got something else going on right now, who knows. But you def deserve to have friends who care about you and keep in touch!