😬😬😬 like i wanna b honest bc they have been going thru a lot of rejection lately, but also how r u supposed 2 answer this without being an asshole fkfjfjf. "oh ya u get attached way too quickly and it scares away like 90% of ppl" isnt smth a nice person says i think

oof awkward

maybe they're trying to seek reassurance rather than actual feedback? cos like, what do they really expect you to say??

i think b honest but gentle

the first think i would say is like 'why are u asking?' just to see like, did someone say they have red flags? r they doin some self reflecting? Then ask what they think, before going into 'well some people may see (behavior) as a red flag'

if they go 'do YOU see it as a red flag?' u can alsways respond w 'i kno you well enough/long enough/whatever that I don't feel that's relevant' before going in2 like a gentle 'not every1 would let (behavior) slide and if you're worried about it, you should work on it'