Back in June, my grandma sold her house and she bought a house closer to my parents. She started going downhill in September and she's been in the hospital for two weeks. We just got news that my grandma is dying and my mom said I'm not allowed to visit her. It's only immediate family. So out of curiosity, I called the hospital and we're allowed to visit because the prognosis isn't good. My mom is denying my rights to see my grandma because it's only "immediate family". Like, wtf. I told my dad that I called the hospital and he said I was a burden to the family because I'm always trying to "force" my way into things.

I've lost respect for my family. I'm even considering saving up money to move out of town when I get a job. I don't need them.

I'm so pissed off. I don't even know anymore.

[edit] My grandma has passed away and I never got to say goodbye and that I’m sorry for being mad at her

My moon said “It was only between me, my brother and my mom”. I said “No. it’s not fair that you took away my rights”. I told her that I never want to talk to her again. I hate my mom so much right now

I'm so very sorry for your loss! :( And truly sorry that the rest of your family are such ass hats! You really deserve so much better.

That's horrible. I wouldn't blame you if you made a public post detailing how your family disrespected you like that.

By the way, could your family face possible legal repercussions for that?

Mmm.. I don't know about a legal aspect. You also need money for a lawyer and I can barely afford food. I told my mom that I don't want to talk to her. I need to make a decision because I have no issues with cutting out family. I've done it to other family members.

I'm not even hungry. I just can't look at food.

you didn't deserve to be left out, she was just as much your grandma as anyone else's. I'm sorry Janeen. Your family sucks and I wouldn't blame you if you cut them out.

, I am so sorry to hear that your grandma passed away.

You mom shouldn't have denied you the right to see her. She sounds like my (for lack of a better word) aunt and uncle. I cut them completely out of my life, them and most of my mom's side of the family. My mom understand though and she doesn't talk to a bunch of them too.

What are some of your good memories with your grandma? Try to think of those. c: They help a lot. I cannot say though you will ever get over the death, I don't know your relationship. I still miss my grandma and this part of the year is probably the worst for me. Maybe there is something you can do in her memory, something she liked to do or something you guys did together?

As for leaving your house, it probably isn't a bad idea, but you have to make sure you are prepared for it. Job, money, maybe a roommate. Do you have anyone your could stay with for a little while, while you grieve - a friend or something?

No. I have no one. I’m so tired. I’ve been crying all afternoon.

I am so sorry for your loss and that you are being treated that way by your family. Sending you love ❤️

- I wish I could do something to help. c: We are hear though to talk to you and help you how we can. c:

I am so sorry for your loss and that you are being treated that way by your family. Sending you love ❤️

Edit: oops sorry for double post

Thank you ❤