I don't know if this is the right place to post this but I need to.

I joined 11 years, 5 months, and 3 days ago.

I joined when I was sad, and lonely, and didn't have a good friend group, family support, or support system in general. But, I had this website. Not that I'm ALWAYS active, but, especially during the holidays I found a community that made me feel uplifted and good. I could trick or treat, throw snowballs, give gifts, wish happiness on others. And it's always made me feel so good.

I've had a hard upbringing, but Subeta has been a silver lining for me. I graduated with every Holiday season of the past few years helping me through my fall semesters, helping me feel okay and loved. I started on this website a lonely kid who didn't have a family and now I have a husband, 3 cats, an amazing best friend, and a website I can always come to for good times. I'm just really grateful for this website, and the people on it.

I usually hate blanket "I love you, you're beautiful" statements but I have not seen a bad egg on this website and -I love you, you're beautiful. Thanks everyone <3

I'm in a similar situation, I resumed Subeta after a long absence. I ran into a person who quite literally made it possible for me to open up, I felt acceptance and later comfortable enough to foster some change. I used to be an angry, reclusive, loner. This and external factors made my slow transition to a more generous, lively, and open minded person.

I joined 9 years, 6 months, and two days ago. And resumed in October 2015.

I also returned to college, after ten years. I changed my major to automotive technology, my next semester begins Monday. I intend on being the same kind of student a real life friend was. The best.

I'll accept being called beautiful, even cacti bloom.

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so glad you found a loving and welcoming community here! <3 idk what I'd do if anything were to happen to this site~ ;___;

you're beautiful too!

I've been here 15 years and idk what I'd do if this site vanished. I'm glad you're all still here.