I don't have anything too interesting. I had a date where there was a lot of silence on both sides of the conversation. I suck at finding things to say and I was the only one trying.

We went to the coffee shop and he showed me different sketches he had done over the years. We bonded over coffee drinks and are now happily married for 4 years!!! It wasn't your typical date, but it was loads of fun. It led to where we are today. Here's the really weird part...I asked HIM out!

We were going out for coffee, he said. He met me at my old university, and we walked to a big graveyard. He put a blanket out on a bench in a quiet area, and pulled out a thermos and some mugs. Kind of random I thought, but the conversation was flowing and I was having a nice time. We sat there and talked for a while, but it was December, so it was pretty cold, even with the hot coffee. So we were like, okay this is nice, but we can't stay here all night. So we took a bus to the capital, and on a whim went to a cinema and watched Crimes of Grindelwald or something. Afterwards, we went to a bar, had some drinks, and the rest is history. That's the story of our second date, a year and a half later we're still happy together and planning for the future :)

We went shopping on Christmas Eve. At the mall. With his uncle. It was also like 9 in the morning, and it was so insanely crowded. I basically just helped him find gifts for some of his family. It wasn't terrible per say, it was just really odd... We talked more for a bit after but it definitely did not come to anything. He also kept insisting he could drive me places and I was like 'yeah, no.' Not getting in a car with a total stranger thanks.

Weirdest date I ever went on was in high school with a guy who had gone to my school but graduated the previous year. It was over the winter break and he had another guy from university staying with him and his family because you can't live in the dorm over the break. His parents wouldn't let the guy be in the house alone, so the guy I was going on the date with brought him along. We let him pick the movie and he picked Alien vs Predator 2, which is not a great film for a first date. It was many flavours of awkward.

I would say my weirdest date was great until the last minute. We went for food and went out dancing. Normal conversation. It flowed well. He was very very attractive. We didn't kiss at the end. He didn't make a move at all. As it ended... I said "okay goodnight. Message me." He said "Okay. I am going to masturbate while I think of you"

It was so out of the blue. Like I said, he didn't make a move. Even though I was attracted to him, I couldn't really tell if it was reciprocated. But we got along well. It was a very bizarre ending to a good evening. I think he must have realized he really blew it on his way home. Kicked himself for blurting that out. I felt so uncomfortable I just said no to a second date. I think it would have been really awkward lol

ahhh finally a space to share my tales. I have so many ranging from mildly uncomfortable to downright terrifying. the first one that popped into my head was this time I was running to work and I almost ran over a little child (whoops). I didn't have much time to apologize because I was late to work and as I turned to keep running some dude stopped me and asked for my number. We texted throughout work and we planned to go to the pier and later watch a movie.

So the day comes and he picks me up from my apartment and we head to the pier. Everything is normal so far, just the usual first date awkwardness but he seemed nice enough. So we peruse the farmers market and grab some food and head down to the beach. He takes me to this somewhat secluded rock and we're not five minutes into eating before he wants to make out. We're vibing and suddenly he reaches out, grabs my hair, and starts what I can only describe as "firmly grasping" it haha. He starts pulling it and breathing more and more heavily and I start pulling away cuz.....wtf. I tell him I'm not feeling well and I want to go home despite having plans to go watch a movie.

He takes me home and is super bummed about me calling it quits on the date early. at this point I'm just trying to get away because I'm getting weird vibes. He drops me off but asks to use my bathroom. I'm hesitant but let him because I don't want him to pee his pants or anything lmao. So the structure of my apartment is downstairs (living room, kitchen, and dining area) and upstairs (shared bedroom w/ roommate, bathroom, and double sink area).

I'm hanging out downstairs while he pees and I hear him call out from upstairs. So I walk halfway up the stairs before I see him standing at the top COMPLETELY NAKED. Also -- it is to be noted that this was the first time I'd ever seen a dude's peepee with long pubes. I was so terrified haha. I remember I screamed and then yelled for him to get out. He tried to convince me to just "lay with him" for a little bit and I was very clear that if he didn't leave in 5 minutes I would call the cops. So the homie leaves and I think everything is fine now right???? WRONG.

I know for a fact he kept driving past my house for a few weeks to come and he would often come stop by the cafe I worked at. So yeah that was pretty great.

Mine was a guy at university. I think he thought it was super romantic.

We went to a teashop where he just stared at me a lot... I'd ask him questions about himself and his studies, and he'd just answer without asking me anything in return. Then we walked for at least an hour looking for some art exhibition he'd heard about.... We didn't find it and he walked me home. Then he kept making head gestures for me to invite him to my room, which I ignored and acted like I didn't know what he was suggesting.... He said he was off, I went in for a hug, he went in for a kiss.... And then I felt his tongue against my VERY CLOSED lips - haha. I told him I was going to be really busy and that I'd text him...... I never did and I thankfully never saw him again.

That's creepy stalker level horrifying!

Mine was just sadly odd. Back in the 70's when I was dating, I was also a search and rescue volunteer with the local sheriffs dept. I was on a 24 hour pager (no cell phones back then), and sure enough it went off right in the middle of dinner. My date was sweet and waited patiently while I found a pay phone and called in. Turns out, an elderly woman with dementia, had managed to get the keys to the family car and had vanished on a winding mountain road. Not a call I could beg off on. My date proved to be a gentleman with a sense of adventure and offered to help. Unfortunately, by the time our search team discovered where the car had gone off the road, it was too late. To add to the trauma of hauling the corpse of somebody's grandmother back to the roadway and waiting for the coroner to arrive, the slope was covered in poison oak.
He never called me back.

a date against my will when i was studying in a coffee shop and an online stalker sought me out and sat with me